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    drmandle

    oh sdhiT! i judt set fire to the kitchen!!!!!! wow! amazxing! spirezaaaaaaaaaa

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    drmandle

    theres nothing wrong with 'using' porn, and i wouldnt say your adicted. if it starts causing problems for you then perhaps it is becoming an adiction

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    drmandle

    i'm not smoking weed now, yet i dont want any. i'm not giving up totaly because i dont want to, but i'm not smoking it constantly because again i dont want too. i'll just smoke it when its free, and wish for it when its not

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    drmandle

    im really confused. while i love smoking weed socialy i cant just have it socialy, its gotta be all the time, every night. after ive been smoking a spliff every day for a few days i find it really hard to sleep without it, i managed 3 hours last night......

    anyway back to my point i dont want to be some pothead loser but at the same time i dont want to quit and stop totaly, i just want to moderate my ussage. does anybody thing thats a possible/good idea?

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    drmandle

    the thing is, i like smoking weed. i like being stoned and messing arround, its great fun!! when i had that weed i made a prommise not to do it all at once and i failed that completley. i will keep doing it but i think a break until next friday is in order, then i will pick up the joint again and smoke away possibly. if not then then i'll try to make it through next month without weed. hopefuly

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    drmandle

    i'm not sure if it was just a one off. shes always been 'nice' to me in that way and id had suspicions about her feelings for me for a while, but then it happened.....

    .... i was going to tell my friend, but when i went to see him the first thing he told me was he really liked her, that put me in a difficult situation, how could i tell him then? ive decided to keep it a secret just to protect his feelings, i know it wouldnt do his self esteem any good if i told him.

    never mind, at least it was a fun night!

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    drmandle

    i drink so much less now its good! ive got so much more money, i dont have hangovers 2 or 3 times a week. i can still fire it up when i want but i duno. theres something liberating about freedom from substances like pot and booze

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    drmandle

    well it could be nothing, but then again it could be something. the best course of action (in my humblest of opinions) would be to observe from distance, see how things go between them. if you still think things arent going to well for them in a week or 2 next time you two talk, bring it up. just ask an innocent question like 'how are things with you two?' dont be intrusive however.

    what you should do if he is going to break your friends heart is an entirely different question, and all i can think of is ask him to be gentle. warn her subtely, but dont mention it. other than that it'll probably end in tears

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    drmandle

    hey all.

    well i have this big dilema/problem on my mind right now, so if you'll listen i'll tell you my story.....

    i was at this party about 2 weeks ago, and i was suppost to be going with my 2 mates to this house full of girls. one of my mates didnt go which sucked because this girl called 'mrs x' liked him alot..... anyway the night was excelent, managed to consume vast quantities of red wine and entice people with tales of stoned antics for hours, then it came to sleeping. 'mrs x' insisted i slept in her bed for the night, fair enough i thought at the time. anyway you can probably guess what happened (it was fucking amazing by the way), and i got up the next day to get my train and i was pleased with myself and felt pretty happy! however, we all went out on the tuesday (mostly the same people from the party) and 'mrs x' wanted nothing to do with me, barely spoke etc.

    i'm just not sure what to do. its been a few weeks and now she goes out with my friend, only a couple of people know and she's just left me in such an uncomfortable position, i have no idea where i stand on the whole issue and its really getting to me and my self esteem, probably why i smoked so much last week. should i ask her why she did it (she made the first move) or should i let the past be the past and forget it ever happened? the worst thing is we were friends before and now i just dont trust her or many other people, i guess i expected too much or something..... anyway opionions and help please

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    drmandle

    hey everyone its been a while since i posted here....

    i gave up pot over xmas, and i felt so good. like really really good, i had loads of money, i was never tired or 'too stoned' to do shit. then when i got back to uni i got myself hooked up with some weed, just for social occasions etc, it lasted me about 3 days and it was all gone, a whole quarter of skunk. it sucks because i want another one now, i really feel by doing that i undid all my hard work by doing that, and guess what? i feel like shit now i dont have my weed. back when i was a total pot head id have just got plain drunk every time i didnt have weed but this is a path i'm avoiding. i duno, i feel so low at the moment, it feels like the world has moved on but left me where i am, my friends at uni are so fickel and my friends back home seem so different now its like we speak another language. i just dont know what to do, im tempted to buy some weed and wallow in myself pitty but ive realised that thats going to get me nowhere at all, i just feel so lost and insecure at the moment......

    isnt life grand?

    (oh and incase you didnt notice ive been avoidint this forum because it reminds me of weed)

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