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    @readytogo i dont have a problem masturbating. It s when i'm masturbating somehow someway i think about having the problem when im having intercourse and i go soft.

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    @readytogo Yeah you're right. I need to be optimistic about this situation and get over it. Yeah ever since it happened, all I've been focusing/thinking is trying to get an erection and maintaining it. Would you suggest trying to eliminate masturbation or touching myself and watching porn for a while? I'm sure this situation is worse than what it should be, its just pops up in the back of my head every once in a while, and i cant get it out. I just gotta focus on positive thoughts. By any chance have you ever experience anything like that? if you did what did you do or how did you overcome situations like that? Thanks!

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    @readytogo Thanks for replying! I understand its easier said than done, I've tried not thinking about the problem before and its hard not to. It takes one little thought about it and it just feeds on to it. This slump is even making it hard to get a boner watching porn without thinking about my problem. lol. I guess i'll have to see how it goes when she comes back. Maybe you can answer this question, does watching porn and masturbating kills sex drive (like a lot)? In my mind i wanna have sex, but my body doesn't? does that even make sense? THanks!

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    Just recently I am having a problem having sexual activities with my girlfriend, We've been going out for about 4 months and things were great. I'm 28 and I think i am having anxiety on performance issue. It is more because we were having sex one time and for some reason i couldnt keep my erection. The next time over the same thing happen because I had thought about the previous experience. What are some ways of getting over this issue? Even when im on my own time, Im watching porn it is still hard for me to sustain and good erection, and when that happens I think of the sex experience with my girlfriend and i go soft. And now im really afraid of having intercourse with my girlfriend when she comes back from her trip. I;m afraid the same thing might happen again. Im really insecure about this problem and afraid that it will drive her away. I know there is more than sex to a relationship, but in a relationship there has to be sex also. I just cant get a grip of whats really going on. I'm worried too much about performing in the bed, my penis size 5-5.5", giving her pleasure, comparing myself to her past. just small things like that gets to my head and I cant clear it out. Can someone please help? Thanks in advance and much appreciated.

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