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    Good point - it sounds like you may be getting retrograde ejaculation, which is when the semen is ejaculated up into the bladder instead of out through the penis. It can be caused by a variety of things, but one of the causes is a malfunctioning sphincter valve above the prostate that is supposed to close during ejaculation to prevent the semen from flowing into the bladder. One way to check for retrograde ejaculation is, after you have your orgasm, the next time you go to urinate, urinate into a clear glass, and examine the urine for cloudiness. If the urine is cloudy, or has white thick fluid mixed in with it, then you had a retrograde ejaculation. You need to check this with a glass, because you probably won't notice the cloudyness peeing into a toilet. If the urine is yellow but completely transparent, then that is not the problem. If you are getting retrograde ejaculations, you will need to see a urologist to have the situation corrected - there is a procedure that can repair the malfunctioning valve. Retrograde ejaculations aren't harmful, but they do make you infertile.

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    Yup - I agree with ineligible. The average erect length is just under 6 inches, like 5.8" approximately.

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    It depends on a lot. On average if I'm not doing stop and go method (edging), about 3 minutes. That's if I cum once a day. If I cum multiple times in one day, I'll last up to 5 to 10 minutes by about the 5th or 6th orgasm of the day. At the opposite end of the spectrum, if I abstain for a while, like a week or more, I can cum in a matter of seconds, and definitely under a minute. The quickest I ever cummed was in 15 seconds, after abstaining for over 2 weeks.

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    You probably pulled a groin muscle, or something may have hit your left testicle during practice. Both are common injuries that usually get better by themselves in a few days. If you don't notice any improvement after 3 days, or the pain becomes worse or severe, see a doctor.

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    Originally Posted By: rockoutbabyCan I go to the doctors to see if im done with puberty? im 19 Yes, a doctor can tell you if you're done with puberty. But all the doctor will do is examine you and compare your development with the Tanner stages of puberty, which you could really do yourself. If you've reached Tanner Stage 5, you're considered done with puberty. You can find the different Tanner stages online right here on A2A: http://www.afraidtoask.com/?page_id=159

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    Originally Posted By: Saya

    Originally Posted By: focus

    It actually takes about 75 days for sperm to mature and be ready for ejaculation from the time they are produced.

    Well........there are so many different opinions given.......anywhere from 10 days to 100days for sperm to mature.

    Which is the right one? This fact is always confusing me.

    Do a search with your favorite search engine for how long it takes sperm to mature, and you will find the 75 days I listed is the correct number, supported by several medical articles and research papers. 74 days is the exact number I saw actually :wink:

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    Originally Posted By: Ineligible
    focus! Welcome back!
    Thanks! Good to be back :smile:

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    Sperm production is relatively constant, and is not "demand driven". In other words, your testes will produce the same amount of sperm everyday (~100 million to 150 million for the average mature male), whether you ejaculate 5 times a day, or 5 times a year. It also takes considerably longer for sperm to mature than 7 days. It actually takes about 75 days for sperm to mature and be ready for ejaculation from the time they are produced. Once mature, the sperm have a life span of about 30-60 days stored inside the body. So any sperm you ejaculate today is at least 2 and a half months old. So if you don't ejaculate often, where do all those billions of built-up sperm go so you don't explode? Several places: 1) the body can reabsorb excess sperm that are not ejaculated - this is what happens to men who have had vasectomies, 2) excess sperm is passed through when you urinate (sperm will typically show up in urine after about 9-14 days of abstinence), or 3) you may have a wet dream which will ejaculate the excess sperm. The first one, reabsorption, takes care of the majority of excess sperm though.The fluids that make up semen are mostly "demand driven" though to a certain extent, so the less aroused you are, and the less often you ejaculate, the less prostate fluid and seminal vesicle fluid will be produced. Excess seminal fluid that is not ejaculated and can no longer be stored is either passed through during urination, or is ejaculated in a wet dream. But yeah, the total sperm count will increase dramatically if you abstain for a week or longer versus ejaculating everyday. But don't get too excited: although the total number of sperm goes up a lot, more and more of the sperm are either dead or not swimming well. For best fertility (ratio of good, viable sperm relative to total sperm count), one ejaculation every 2-3 days is best.

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    Yep, it could also happen if you haven't ejaculated in a while. Things can get a little full down there, and the excess fluid passes out when you urinate sometimes.

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    I agree with stiffy - the one and only wet dream I ever had was incredible, and I've been trying to get more ever since!
    But to answer the original question, yes, it is completely normal to never have gotten a wet dream. Many guys never get them in their entire lives - doesn't mean anything. Generally (but not always the case), the more frequently you ejaculate from masturbation or sex, the less likely you are to get wet dreams.
    If you want to learn more about wet dreams and from others who get them or are seeking to get them, visit [http://www.wetdreamforum.com][0]
    [0]: http://www.wetdreamforum.com

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