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    Gramps

    We guys will take it in stride. I have seen inner lips so long and elastic that the gal could stretch them halfway to her knees and tie them in a knot. My present wife has inner lips so short that I almost cannot find them. Surely yours are somewhere in between, and all are normal. Forget what they look like; concentrate on how it feels when played with. My former wife was a virgin, had inner lips that were almost black. Turns out that she almost never played with herself, but when we started having almost daily sex, they turned pink and developed more sensitivity. I believe the color was pooled stale blood that was stagnating from non-stimulation.

    If they do "show" a bit in a bikini, remember that guys find that a real turn on. You might have to carry a baseball bat to keep the guys away from you. Forget the surgery. Once cut, nerves may never grow back and you will lose a lot of sensation. Enjoy what you have, Those girl parts were made to make you feel good. A vagina is a vagina, a pussy a pussy. Don't let anybody tell you that it is wrong, unsightly, or different. You may be unique (to some extend), but that is good.

    As a guy, the best advice I can give you is keep it clean and healthy. Wipe your ass front to back, not back to front, and it will always smell good enough to eat. When being eaten, relax and enjoy it. Only about a third of gals seem to be able to always have several orgasms at a time, but, with a bit of practice, I believe all can. Enjoy all that you have, try for another each time, and soon you can string together a dozen,... 20,... 30,... and lose all count. At that point, consider yourself to have a great sex life.

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    Gramps

    You don't say how old you are. If you are still growing (like under 22 years old), give it time. Every time you pee, give it a little tug and stretch him out full length. Don't be hard on him; don't hurt him by pulling too much. Just make sure that he gets to full size 8 or 10 times a day. In time he will grow long (and because of the way he grows, also thicker). Most guys are between just under 5 inches to just barely over 6 inches. You must measure from the pubic bone, on top. That is the only accurate way. You can satisfy a girl if your penis is 2/3 the length of her vagina. So with 3 inches you can satisfy girls whose vagina is 4 - 1/2 inches deep. If you grow it to 4 inches, you can satisfy a 6 inch deep vagina. Those porn stars with the super long dicks can't get theirs all the way in a girl. It makes for good video, but not good sex.
    The post above mine is good advice. Find a gal (or guy) who enjoys sucking, and lay back and enjoy it. Unless you are a trained gymnast or yoga expert, you will wind up in the chiropractor's office trying to suck yourself off.

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    Gramps

    I wouldn't cut back unless there is a good reason. Most guys keep on truckin once they have started. Use it or lose it, just like any other muscle. I started before I was 4 years old, and played with mine 2 to 4 times daily until in my 20s, when I married. I think a good sex life is a good part of life, and masturbation is part of a good sex life.

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    I have been playing with mine since before I can remember. When I was almost 4, we moved to a new house, and I remember the move, and I remember the creaks and noises in the new house. I was scared at night, but I remember thinking that, if something were to kill me during the night, at least I would have one more time to play with him before I fell asleep.
    The first day of first grade (that was before pre-school was invented) I fished him out of my short pants and told him that he would have to wait until after school. A little girl saw me and told the teacher. :( For the next 12 years, we played together at least twice a day, and some days 3 or 4 times., mostly by myself, but sometimes with friends. I had my first wet cum around 12 - 13, and what a pleasant surprise, and FABulous feeling! I am now almost 80, have been married three times and have 4 grown kids with families of their own.
    Playing never hurt me, and I still crank one out every so often. But it is no substitute for a warm, wet, willing pussy.
    Several guidelines for you young and inexperienced: 1. You have two hands; alternate them on odd and even days so you don’t get used to the same thing time after time. Your future GF / wife will thank you. 2. Do it without guilt, and make it feel good. Sometimes use both hands. 3. Never do anything that hurts him. 4. Don’t let your Mom catch you doing it. Women don’t always understand. 5. Every time you pee, stretch him to full length. Don’t tug hard, not with much force! But doing this will let him grow longer and thicker (don’t ask me why, it just does). 6. Like any other muscle, use it or lose it. 7. Remember, he is the only lifelong friend that you will ever have. When they close the lid on your casket, only the two of you will be in there. So take good care of him until then.

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