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    greatbeingaguy

    Used properly, they are safe. The main advantage of using an enema over a laxative is that the effects are predictable and immediate. However, the over-the-counter squeeze bottle enemas only clean out the very last portion of the bowel. So if you are seriously constipated you might need to get an actual enema bag.

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    greatbeingaguy

    This is a common concern. But let me tell you, if you can get over it you will be doing yourself a world of good. I used to have the same anxieties as you. But I was determined not to let them run my life so I created a "bravery" program for myself -- in which I would plan "dares" -- that is, little steps that finally got me to the point where I could move my bowels in a public toilet. First step was just to go in a stall and sit there. Just to get used to the environment. What I learned from this is that stalls really do feel more enclosed than you might think. I did this numerous times before ramping up to actually using the bathroom when nobody else was around. The final and hardest obstacle was forcing myself to go in a stall and move my bowels when there were other guys in other stalls. This gradual desensitization worked wonders for me. I will now go anywhere, any time -- and I don't even think about it. In other words, if I have to go -- I go. No big deal.

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    greatbeingaguy

    You're not freaky. I would say you are very normal. Touching the anus is pleasurable. Why wouldn't you want to do it? As for eating your semen, I think a fair number of guys want to do this, but lose the desire once ejaculation occurs. However, I don't see anything wrong with it. I've tried mine. I kind of felt it my duty as a guy to see what it tasted like. Salty and non-descript is the answer. And if I could suck my own penis, I'd be down there constantly. Which is probably why God made it impossible for most of us to self-suck -- or no work would ever get done! Bottom line, relax.

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