>because she is more comfortable acting that way towards her mother because she knows she will be forgiven and get what she wants
Yeah that sounds right actually :S
Anyway, apparently they took her to see a counselor and shit but apparently that didn't do any good.
I don't really know how I can bring up the subject to my stepmother or my dad without looking like I am being pushy and telling them what to do.
Even though going to the doctors to get this checked may seem scary DO IT. I have been in your position before and I didn't get it checked out and in the end I was in hospital with a very very nasty infection that could have been so much worse (I could have had to have a testicle removed thankfully I didn't and thankfully with antibiotic I was fine and any STI I did have was cured... if I indeed had an STI could have just been from an urinary tract infection).
So my advice is go to the doctors, if you don't you will regret it. Your cock and balls is NOT something you leave when something bad happens, it is the last place you ever gamble health wise with.
besides if you do there is a chance all will be fine, so don't worry too much. If anything do it for piece of mind and a better night sleep knowing what is wrong. There are many free clinics depending where you live where you can get tested free and confidentially and the staff are friendly and wont judge you (not that anywhere you would get tested would be any different).
So google where you live and free sti testing and see what you can find, and next time you have sex, wear protection then you wont have to worry about this kind of stuff.
I read something a long time ago where someone made a statement that stuck with me.
Guys masturbate allot, and when we do allot of us just basicaly are focused on blowing our load and not enjoying the pleasures of it all. By doing this we are basically conditioning our brains to try and cum fast and not have long lasting erections.
A god tip for a long lasting erection is to masturbate for longer periods of time and essentially retrain yourself for a longer sexual experience.
Also it is doubtful that it is your fault, I have had this happen to me before and it is VERY VERY annoying. Allot of the time it is just all mental though, my problem was as stated above, I had trained myself to focus on cumming and not overall enjoyment of the sexual experience.
The best thing you can do is if this happens again tell him you took a look on the internet and it is perfectly normal for it to happen. Because what you dont want to happen is for him to get into a vicious cycle of worry where he goes limp because he is worried then he worries more, and it happens more often.
Also many other things can make this happen, for example if he is very tired, dehydrated of very hungry or maybe hungover from a night before or not feeling his best due to a cold or somthing else.
Hope this helps, don't worry yourself as he is worrying so much more than you I guarantee it.
Each guy is differant. Pay attention to him and when he seems to be enjoying somthing allot then you will know youre doing it right. Here are some ideas:
Also maybe watch some hand job porn movies there are plenty of free porn video sites out there. I doubt I can link something like that here but if you google "Porn hub" you will find a site with many free movies, then just search "hand job". That may give you some ideas on what to do.
Though if you're under 18 you shouldn't be watching porn... but that didn't stop me when I was young, but I thought I better say just to make sure you knew.
I don't think its because of my dad, as soon as my dad comes home she stops because my dad scares her haha. So she doesn't act bad around him because she knows he wont stand it, I dunno, maybe her mom needs to do more. If she shouts my dad shouts back and gets right in her face, that seems to work and stops her tantrum, her mom seems to get her kids to try and restrain her... maybe that's the problem.
Yeah, its best to tell the authorities. There are allot of crazy fucked up people out there, its best to play its safe and not risk your own personal safety.
After all you have nothing to lose by telling the police, but if you don't you may have allot to lose.
Don't risk it.
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She is 9 years old, way to old for her to be acting the way she does.
As far a discipline she is grounded to her room for a while now and her mom is going to take everything out her room (even the bed) so that she just has a mattress. But even that doesn't seem to stop her, I dunno what can be done to be honest :S could do with some advice to give to my dad.