So. I'm a common 19yo guy, and I'm in a relationship from over 1 year and half one, but we are a LDR (Long-distance). This isn't absolutely a problem for our sexual life, so it doesn't matter.
The point is that both yesterday and today, even if I had a normal arousal and practied masturbation it just... ended too soon, without much pleasure. I changed absolutely nothing in my habits or such so I was a second afraid. I will see tomorrow I am but... I exaggerate if I'm afraid of some premature ejaculation?
@Ineligible I am sorry if I can't explain myself decently, but I'm not a native English speaker and while I can speak decently in general I have some problem with this topic ahahahah!
Anyway, I will try. I feel like if the condom can't be properly streched on the shaft, because of the "mass" of foreskin that i can't pull under the glans.
Sure, we will do it without any doubt, if she will use it. But I doubt it. I would prefer to use a condom and end of the story.
The point is that, as I said above, it really HURTS me, when it "mix" (not the right word but I hope that you get what i mean) with the retracted foreskin. Even if I will be able to retract I will still have this problem.
So, I'm a 19yo guy but I learned only 1 year and half ago that a penis is supposed to be able to pull back the foreskin. I have NEVER had any idea about it (nor my doctor nor my parents said anything about it) and my penis, during regular masturbation was never pulled back even a bit.
Anyway, not much time before learning about it, I started a distance relationship with a girl. Since We hadn't much chance to explore this matter, for the whole first year of our relationship we limited ourselves (both virgins) to oral and manual sex.
But 6 months ago I decided that I had to something that isn't circumicision. I started to strerch it and I am able to pull it back a bit, but still not enough to expose my glans (when erect, while flaccid I may be able to do it, but for now it hurts too much)
The point is that my foreskin is longer than the penis itself, and the top of it is a bit smaller than the rest of it. When I am fully erect and I try to expose the glans, at a certain point this smaller ring doesn't let me do that.
I don't know why, but when I try to put on a condom (I bought a full fucking pack of it) I just can't. It slide on the foreskin or part of it enters in the gap created by the smaller foreskin and it hurts A LOT.
For STDs we are safe, so I could even ask her to use female condoms or the pill for our first times (we are planning it) but I would prefer to avoid it for various reasons.
What I am supposed to do?
I'm 19yo (almost 20) and I'm in a relationship from over 1 year with a girl. We had our first sexual experience together and only after 5 months but this moment was the moment in which, (or, to be precise, two months before that we did our first experiences) I discovered what the hell my foreskin was supposed to do.
Blame my parents, my medic, my teacher and the rest of those bunch of idiots, but I wasn't aware (18 at the time) that I was supposed to pull back my foreskin to... well, jerk off.
This resulted in a quite shitty first time for us (not penetrative sex, only manual and oral sex) but I put my mind in doing stretching. Now, I'm able to retract way more but still not enough to expose complitely the glans, but this is another matter, infact I was thinking to go to the doctor to ask if I should just go on with the stretching or help it with something else.
Anyway, 2/3 days ago, during the daily stretching i pull the foreskin a lot and noticed that the part of the glans I exposed in that moment was RED. A lot red.
I am quite worried about it, but it didn't see nothing important, it was just...red.
P.S. Oh well, I should say that I was just after I masturbated, because it's easier for me to do longer streching after it.
@readytogo More than hypersensivity (which is still a thing anyway) the point was this strange sensation of "blockage" i felt. Like if the tight tip of my foreskin was blocking the rest of the penis, which is impossible because it is tight but NOT that tight.
And i'm going on with the stretching, but from a time i don't notice other improvments. Any idea of what I should do to go on?
NB: This is mostly because I'm afraid of possible repercussion on my love-life. I have been in a relationship with a girl I love from a year, but with a mix of our being a LDR (we see like once in a month for two days), both virgin and her having a lot of problem with her sex-life (she is unable to masturbate properly because a full wagon of reasons) we never had penetrative sex. At this point we are starting to think about it and lead me to worry about wearing a condom with such a condition.
So guys, I wrote here like 6 months when I started stretching and similar to be able to expose completely my glans and, after this time, i am able to do it.
The thing is still a bit strange because I have to do it veeeeery slowly and I feel my head like grasped by my foreskin, this mostly because my condition is having too much skin and the tip of it is really tight. As a consequence even when I take it behing my glansit is tight and is a bit a pain in the ass. This isn't the point in any case. The point is that while i do so I feel a strange sensation on the exposed head, something i can't describe very well, like if something is "blocked" (not literally anyway). I was eeven trying to masturbate to ease up the pain derived from the stimulation of the glans but i can't do shit with such a sensation, it worries me a lot.
Hi there guys!
The question may seems strange, but lately i started wondering something i never had.
How hard is your erection and how you can tell that it is the maximum you can have?
Lately i had notice a reduction of random erections during the day and loss of morning wood, and i got worried, after all i'm ony 20. This, with a strange high temperature in the penis most of the time. Anyway, I went to the doctor and he said that it is probably connected to thestress (can't explain the reasons here but trust him). Still, i started wondering about my erections and blablablablablabla and now I am here asking this to you. How can you tell th
So guys, I thank all of you now and hope that someone will be able to help me.
I'm doing stretching to pull back by foresking from months and it is working, and from a bit of time (more or less 1 month) i'm able, if I want to pull it back almost completely.
Sometimes the foreskin remain very loose and don't return to its normal status for a lot, meaning that it easily roll back, even when my penis is soft.
Now, i have streched it back yesterday, trying to masturbate with it pulled back, one of the thing i wanted to do (to be able to use a condom without pain) and it hurted too much andi gave up. But, even this morning the foresking is still soft and roll back like nothing.
It should be a positive thing? It haunts me a bit.
P.S. The point is that if i try to masturbate normally my foreskin goes fast behind the glans and it comes out. It has NEVER acted this way.
Hello to everyone out there!
I'm a 19yo guy, as you can read, uncut. Well, i had some problems with this fact, but i'm slowly becoming able to retract my foreskin (but still not always and with A LOT of anxiety, in particular about my foreskin being stuck behind the head) and i'm trying to put on a condom.
Yeah, this now is my great problem. As i said, i can almost retract my foreskin but i have problem to put a condom while doing so, to not talk about having intercourse: i tried to masturbate while wearing a condom, but it slide a lot. It has never gone out of position completely, but enough to have a lot of the condom not on the penis (the tip was away from my head), and also part of it rubbed between the foreskin and the head, hurting a bit).
I am quite worried about this: i have just to improve my ability to retract it or something else?
I'm asking this because... well, i don't want to have problem with my gf when it will be time to use a condom.
We are both unexperienced so... well, i don't to want to create more problem for her at out first time.