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    Welcome to A2A, lupacexi.

    Two possibilities come to mind. Perhaps it is simply a scar that gets redder than the rest of the skin when warm, due to more blood supply; or perhaps there is a mild skin infection. If the latter, it might be fungal, in which case you need an anti-fungal cream, or bacterial, which needs an anti-bacterial cream. Both are available from a pharmacy without prescription, and you can try one after the other (or get a cream that does both). Give them several days, applying at least twice a day, to see if they have an effect. If they do, keep using the cream for at least a week after all symptoms have gone.

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    Welcome to A2A, wannabegirl83!

    No, it's not wrong; but it seems you have conflicting desires. That's neither wrong nor unusual, but you do want to sort out in your own mind what is most important for you.

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    Welcome to A2A, Marl92.

    Condoms should be rolled on. If you try to pull it on unrolled like a T-shirt you are likely to have trouble.

    That said, you may well need the large size. Try one--it should be tight, but not uncomfortable. It should not interfere with your erection (but of course the stress of doing something new can cause loss of hardness itself . . .).

    Large condoms are designed for large girth/thickness, rather than large length. (Length differences are dealt with by making all sizes of condom a good deal longer than the average male, and you just unroll as much as you need.) Ordinary size condoms are designed to fit the average girth (distance around the shaft), around about 4.75 inches, 12 cm.

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    @mechanic Welcome to A2A, mechanic, and thanks for your post. I wonder how many apparently very conventional guys have a similar story to tell.

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    Welcome to A2A, bealady21. The picture upload feature doesn't work, so you'll have to upload your pictures to a photo-sharing/hosting site (see https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_image-sharing_websites ). Photobucket no longer works, but imgur is a possibility.

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    Welcome to A2A, imeme! I'm having trouble visualising how that might work.

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