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    justanotherone

    So my gf and I have been together for a little over a year. Just recently she reconnected with a friend..a guy friend that I've had issues with before. Anytime he talks to her it's as of he's dating her, her calls her these names and crosses the line in most conversation. And my problem is is that my gf continues to talk to him even knowing his alterior motives. She says they're just friends so I believe it. But any chance she gets that she's not around me, she's on the phone with him. They call each other several times a day for about ten minutes each time..they text all day and the second she ends it she deletes everything. And he's trying to call her and text her all night long.I can't tell her who she can and can't talk toAnd I can't just accuse her of things i have no proof ofBut any time I try to talk abou it she turns it around on me not trusting herWhen all I want is the respect of not having to question her. I'd never put her in that type of situation. Him acting the way he does, makes me believe Shes replaced me in certain aspects of our relationship and I'd rathere leave her then sit here and play dumb and get hurt. What do I do? I don't play that if I don't know it won't hurt me game because I have big plans for this girl, I don't need someone that's in this half assed. I need full commitment and dedication and she says she is, but she's worrying me to death with this stupid situation

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    justanotherone

    My gf and I have been having sex for a while now, no big deal or anything out of the usual. However last night I believe there is a chance that a bit of Previn could have gotten into her. Now, with that being said she is believed to have a ovarian cyst possibly. And will be goin to the gyno Tuesday. Just took a pregnancy test couple days ago so whatever issues she's having isn't that. But this morning after having sex last night shes saying she's leaking fluid from her female parts. Not a lot, and it doesn't smell. And it's definitely not normal for her. So could it be cum or semen, infection from a cyst or uti, or just her body cleaning itself. She's not on her period and won't be for a good couple weeks. And what's the chance of contraception? Would she still be leaking my semen the day after? IF by chance I came inside her it was extremely small ammount right before I pulled out. And I don't need a lecture about the pull out method or correct birth control methods. We know the risks and chances we take.

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    justanotherone

    Ok she just got off her period, which only lasted two days. And took a test this morning. It read negative, but two hours later I looked at it for shits and gigs and there's a very very faint line. If its positive shouldn't it have came up way earlier? I'm so confused.

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    justanotherone

    And as of today she has taken her third test I guess cause she's so paranoid and it also read negative

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    justanotherone

    Now she's sayin its a pain around her belly button/abdomen at random times throughout the day, is it too soon to have these pains to be pregnant? We've only been having sex for two weeks? And like I said her period isn't for at least a week

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    justanotherone

    yeah i appreciate it, i just assumed if she were hurting like she has been she would have already started and she normally doesnt have pains like that..who knows

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    justanotherone

    So my girlfriend and I have been having sex for only around two weeks, and Im normally pretty experienced all around when it comes to it but Ive never been in this situation and im pretty....terrified.so shes still kind of early for her period, roughly about a week away, the problem is shes not on the pill, and like a dumbash I decided not to use condoms due to her complaining about it(i know i know, my own mistake). I have no reason to believe she really is because I never actually came in her, however I know the whole pre cum thing and how it gets some people. Shes not on the pill so her period comes at random times anyway and she cant pinpoint a general date for me other than sometime next week. The only thing thats scaring me is that shes gotten sick once this week, after dinner one night..and has been complaining about her stomach being in pain and knots. theres my fear of her being pregnant. shes taken two tests already, both negative, but i think it could still be very early for the tests to detect. so is the pains her becoming pregnant, or could it just be her period kicking in? even though the pains have been around for a couple of days and still...no period. Im so confused and stressing myself to death over it. Please help.

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