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    kajika

    Believe me, I want some, but I don't trust barrier methods alone, & that's all I can get right now. So it looks like I've got to keep it at least partially in my pants until next June.

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    kajika

    I hate to sound like another idiotic virginal teenager, but
    I'm a virginal teenager, 17, female. Today the boyfriend & I decided to get to the fingering/handjob stage for the first time, & were a touch irresponsible with fingers & fluids & stuff. We washed our hands after he came, but I touched myself with small amounts of precum on my hands. My friends are all harassing me for worrying, saying I would have to name the kid Jesus, but is there a remote chance that I could be pregnant?
    Also, on Fertility chart this chart, I would be between days 27 & 30, so very infertile, if I'm understanding this right.

    _PLEASE don't suggest I get on birth control. If that were an option I would already be on it.

    PLEASE don't suggest emergency contraception, I can't get it in my state.

    PLEASE don't tell me how stupid I am. Believe me, I already know.
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    kajika

    My boyfriend & I were making out one night in the car, & we got to second base for the first time (for either of us). With the combination of him sucking on my ear & playing with my boobs, I was panting & moaning. After a minute, I could feel his body convulsing. Did he have an orgasm just from giving ME pleasure?! I'm just a little curious about the kinds of things that can set a fella off.

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    kajika

    DON'T PULL IT!
    Pull it=ingrown hair + bacteria=staph infection= giant butt boil. Seriously, like the size of a quarter. Being a girl, when it first happened to me, I had the urge to wax it. Big pus-filled, red mistake.

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    kajika

    It used to hurt a LOT. I really don't ever wear more of a bra than the little shelf bra in some of my tank tops though, & almost NOTHING hurts them now. I would imagine there isn't a whole lot outside of padding, etc. that could keep a soccer ball from hurting though.

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    kajika

    Alright, the boyfriend & I just got to this stage about a month ago, & went through something similar. I'm a C-cup, & when my boyfriend hit that problem, he did flip it up & over. I wouldn't call it uncomfortable, but if he had undone it, it would have been more comfortable for me. After that day, though, I've stopped wearing bras on dates, lol!
    As for what to DO in second, I think it should come natural for men, since they've got that unhealthy obsession with our luscious chesticles. For me, when we make it to second, it's ALWAYS a thrill, since he's the first one for me, just seeing him together with my girls gets me excited! I also enjoy sucking, licking, etc. If you do this, though, make sure you don't just latch on like a baby, get creative, swirl your toungue, etc. Hope it helps!

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    kajika

    I was masturbating with a bottle (I'm a teenager, don't own a dildo, use what I have) I know it's a bad idea, but I'd never had issues before. Bottle looks like bottle image this & only has a small ridge that couldn't really be considered sharp, & I never considered this being a risk. I removed the bottle, & it had blood on it. I checked my vagina for blood, too, & there was some. I didn't experience any pain, but I'm still considering this a very bad situation. This was about 30 minutes ago, & since then I have been researching TSS vigorously. To be honest, I'm terrified. Please let me know what I can do to reduce my risk of getting it. If that's not possible, how long before I should expect symptoms (fever, vomiting, etc.) ? Also, my period ended 1 day ago. Would it be possible to blame this on a tampon to my mother? I know it sounds ridiculous, but right now that's a greater concern to me than the TSS.
    If it is medically relevant, I'm Female, 17, virgin.

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