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    Kamikaze

    There is this girl, and me and her are extremely close. She just recently got out of a relationship, about 3 months ago and is still bothered by it. She isn't quite ready for another one just yet, but says she really wants to be with me once she's ready. But lately she's been depressed, and she tells me she'll tell me the reason why when I can answer her a question I asked her.

    I asked her what she wants, and what makes her happy. She tells me that I should be able to see it for myself. But the only reason she gives me when I ask this question is that she loves me, and I need to figure it out myself. She tells me if I can't see the reason why she wants to be with me and what would make her happy, then I don't deserve to know. So she's basically leaving the task of finding out whats wrong to me and myself alone.

    If her only answer seems to be "I love you" what could she be implying? That I make her happy?

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    Kamikaze

    Well, I was figuring by the title you'd get it.

    She said it was positive. But she's gonna try and take another, just to be sure.

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    Kamikaze

    Okay, so a few weeks back me and someone I know got together and were hanging out and drinking, well a few things happened, and we wound up having sex. Without a condom, this was incredibly stupid, we both know, and I really, really, REALLY hate myself for doing it Now this girl is someone whom I've known for years, in fact we used to be in a relationship together. I didn't come inside of her, but I pulled out a good thirty seconds before finishing, and came on her stomach, but she told me on the phone not to long ago she was having weird feelings in her stomach, and she took a pregnancy test, and well... you guess what happened.

    Now, we've had scares where she thought she was prego before, and we planned on possibly getting an abortion if needed. Unless something changed her mind. She is currently at work, and won't be off till eleven tonight, so I won't be able to get ahold of her till then.

    What should be done?

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    Kamikaze

    Well, we talked earlier on the phone. She said she doesn't want to go out just yet. She said it's not that she doesn't like me, but it's the fact she just got out of a relationship. Which I understand.

    Now, she said that eventually she'll be ready, but until then she wants to try and be friends. Which is okay, except for this has happened before, and when I'd finally ask, they would claim I was too good of a friend. How could I avoid this happening?

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    Kamikaze

    CR, I just read your post, and it inspired me to just go straight out and ask tomorrow.

    I kind of brought up today, how I'm starting to like her more, and she said she was thinking about what I told her. But I suppose tomorrow, I'll try asking her out, and if she says not yet, then I'll just wait.

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    Kamikaze

    So, I met a girl at my friends concert at a local pub. Me and her got along right away, and have been hanging out a lot in the past few days. We both like each other, and have told each other this, but I'm not sure when to ask her out. We were talking about what would happen if we went out, and she said she'd probably say yes, but she isn't sure.

    She's has a bad history of failed relationships, and has been raped twice. So, I'm not sure on how and when to do it.

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    Kamikaze

    I'm a really skinny person, and have been working on building up muscles in my arms. But I also have this rather large gut from where I'm guessing I use to just drink soda all the time.

    What sort of exercises should I be doing to lose this?

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    Kamikaze

    Me and some friends were talking about this earlier, and wondering it jelqing exercises actually work?

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    Kamikaze

    Yes, my breathing becomes 'erratic'. I can breathe in really deeply, and finally exhale 10-20 seconds later and then suddenly start breathing really fast, and then not breathing much at all.

    My girlfriend was just recommending it. It's been going on for a few years, but just recently been making me worry.

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    Kamikaze

    Sorry if this is the wrong section.

    I get things like this a lot. But today got me wondering.

    While sitting in the gym with my friends, I suddenly got this strong feeling mix of nervous, sad, and a general uneasy feeling. I have no reason to be nervous, but I just get like this every so often. Sometimes I wind up shaking, my leg constantly want to move, my skin gets red and hot, and I sometimes almost want to cry. I usually don't care what anyone thinks, but when I get like this for some reason I do.

    My friend told me it sounds like anxiety. Could that me it?

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