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    katonsuiiton

    What do you mean, what should you do? You found out you're bi, accept the fact that you're bi, and move on living your life with a greater realization of who you are.

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    katonsuiiton

    I'd say that if you two are perfectly comfortable with each other and have no real problem with each other, then why should there be a problem? If you two can treat each other as friends, there's no biggie if you're talking to his friends as well.But then again, everyone is different. Maybe your ex has a strange opinion about exes and his friends and maybe he specifically, different from the typical person, dislikes his exes hanging out with his friends.You should think about it for a second and make sure 100% that everything between you and him is good and comfortable.

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    Wow O_o well, if it helps to add the other side of the extreme:Kiss: N/AFrench Kiss/Makeout: N/AGave Fingering/HJ: N/AReceived Fingering/HJ: N/AGave Oral: N/AReceived Oral: N/ASex: obviously... N/A

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    Come on, have a little hope. Every generation will have their bad apples but they'll also have their ripe ones, too. Sure, nowadays things seem a little looser and opportunities more available, but bad -and- good things come from that.

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    Thanks you two. What OldFolks said is completely true, and I've only been so lucky to read so many books to make up for that lack of experience in the past. Lack of experience is what made my frist project corrupt.And Pete, I'll try that today. I just woke up two hours earlier than usual (I was aiming for two and a half but I just couldn't pull myself to do it) and now I will start focusing on writing. Today's a good day outside, and I do kind of want to get out and play volleyball with my friends. Even if it is still kind of cold.But I'm also feeling like I'm rushing it if I'm doing it so early. You know, like something I don't want to do but I do it first just to get it out of the way? Kind of like homework? But my story's nothing like that. Maybe I'm just seeing these things in the wrong way.My story is my story and the way I feel about it is the way I feel about it. It doesn't make me feel like it's homework. So it's nothing like homework. Okay then.Whew. That was a close one. That kind of thing happens to me all the time.Thanks you guys I didn't know my problem could be solved with such simple solutions. I guess I have a habit of making small things so complicated sometimes.

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    katonsuiiton

    well the only reason you would touch them, really, is to play with them. so maybe he's just saying "don't touch them at all," as another way of saying, "don't play with them." because really, what else are you going to do with his nipples?

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    katonsuiiton

    There's been a certain conflict between two certain aspects of my life.Here's a little background information of both to make sure you guys understand just how important each one is:My social life in the past couldn't really be called a social life at all. I was really a heavy thinker, so I usually spent my day staying at home, thinking going outside and stuff like that was kind of unimportant and a waste of time. That way, I got pale, earned a few friends but none of them good friends, and remained probably unliked and totally out of "style." Wore something repeatedly, didn't care for my looks, etc. This year, I got some sense and started dressing better, looking better, getting out more and bonding more with friends, etc. I'm still in the middle of that.The second problem is my writing. I've loved my writing and strived to complete one project to make me satisfied. Writing is probably the thing I hold dearest to me and is my most prized value in me. It's something I love more than words can express and it's just so... I can't describe it. It's just so great and I love it so much. Now, I've tried to start a "book project," back last year but that didn't turn out well because of a whole bunch of factors. I've recently started a new one last summer and it's going really well, and I'm waiting to finish it. I write when I can, which is usually the weekends, but this week's a vacation week, so I have the whole week to write chapters.But here's the problem. I can't juggle the two things around all the time. I'd love to spend more time outside with friends and hang out, get to know them, get to know my city, my community, get some sunlight and all that. I really do want that. But I also would LOVE to write chapters because... well it's been a goal much longer than my "bettering my social life," thing. I really want to do both but I can't seem to juggle them. I don't want to split it up between some days though (one day write, another day go outside) because... i don't know. I want to do both at the same time to keep up my... i don't know the word for it. In order to keep up my... momentum? determination? in both. I can't just skip around.And I really would like to go outside during the daytime (obviously). But I feel like I can only write during the day, too. I don't like to write too late because when it's late and I write, I feel like I'm procrastinating and I don't care but I do. Plus, it's not good to put off something so important throughout the whole day. Sometimes, if I write during the day when I wake up (12 pm - i know, really late. Maybe I should start waking up earlier to write?), by the time I'm finished, I don't have enough time as I'd like to go outside and get some sun. And when I wake up, I can't write right away because I'm all flustered and I need to get my mind at peace and calm and rest a little before my head is ready to do any writing.On the other hand, if I go outside first, I'll come back late and not have time to write, or not feel like writing, which isn't productive for my goal at all. Plus, it's not really good for me to go outside and have fun while my whole book and writing thing is hanging over my head. I don't feel like I deserve to have fun unless I write first sometimes...So do you guys have any ideas on what I should do about this? I just don't feel like there's enough hours in my day to do all the things I want, which are really important. Really, really important.D: Thanks for taking the time to read this whole long thing.

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    katonsuiiton

    Happy Birthday! I hope you make this one a great one!

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    katonsuiiton

    I heard retrograde ejaculation can lead to some serious medical problems in the future.

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    katonsuiiton

    Oh, stop it you guys. You know he means the locker room. And to answer you question, OP (jimhunter), if you mean a locker room like in high school, I never do. But that's probably only because no one ever gets a chance to see someone else's penis in my school's locker rooms - the closest you'll ever get is look at some six-foot football god's boxers and legs. But hey, that's enough for some of us I don't think I'd have the right mind to do it even if there was the possibility. I'd probably get too self-conscious or something, but I'd definitely want to.

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