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    kingofclubs

    I think people that go on the attack like that are so frustrated with being rejected that they allow themselved to get out of control. As you know, this is simple desperation...the last resort. If they aren't happy, noone can be. Here's what I suggest:

    1) Don't let her see you sweat. Don't respond, at all. You'll only fuel the flames.
    2) You need to have a very serious talk with your bf about because often in these cases there may be some small behavior that is encouraging this. Don't attack him and start making accusations, but find out what calls he's taken from her.
    3) Involve law enforcement. Keep a log of her calls and emails and take them over to the police station. We see too many violent stories on the news steming from stories like this.

    Good luck.

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    kingofclubs

    1. Absolutely! You may have to show him how.
      2) Yes, especially because you are used to doing it yourself. Show him how. Guide his hand.

      I also suggest not faking an orgasm anymore. Imagine how hurtful that may be to him if/when he finds out. If you don't orgasm, you don't orgasm. If that bothers him, just reinsure him that you still had a good time, the orgasm just didn't happen that time.

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    kingofclubs

    Of course, Ineligible is exactly right. I was expecting you to have other reasons for wanting the surgery (i.e. over sensitivity, etc.) besides simple cosmetics. I really suggest you take a long and hard (no pun intended) look at why you want to put yourself through that, especially as an adult. Think about it, there's a reason its usually done when you're too young to remember. Hopefully in the process you'll learn to love yourself the way you are.

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    kingofclubs

    Condoms in general really kill it for me. I lose so much sensation that the erection goes away. When I most recently had to wear a condom, I tried lambskin, which I really liked. The only problem is they don't do much to protect against disease. There are other materials besides latex that you may consider experimenting with if you think the condom itself may be contributing to the loss of erection.

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    kingofclubs

    When she's not looking.

    Just kidding, of course, but when you are kissing and things are heating up, just gently and casually run your hand across her chest. Touch her check and slowly bring your hand down across her breast. If she doesn't want you to, she'll stop you.

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    kingofclubs

    Same here. I will likely not do it again.

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    kingofclubs

    I've always thought mine smells like pancake batter. Should be no secret why I can't eat pancakes.

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    kingofclubs

    Well, if he walked in on you, you probably wouldn't want him to bring it up everytime he saw you. People masturbate, it's just the way it is. Just leave it alone.

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    kingofclubs

    I was pretty shy in high school as well. After gym we were required to shower but I don't remember any excessive teasing in the showers. Most people just showered and left. I also did some touring with a large music group some years ago and we showered at high schools, but again there wasn't much teasing going on. Now, when I go work out it's the last of my concerns. From my experience it's not been a big deal. I have to wonder if people are being overly sensitive.

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    kingofclubs

    I'd give myself a 6, but I know most girls are attracted to my status and personality.

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