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    Megadeth90

    Alright so I've been with my current girlfriend now for two months and our sex life is really good, but she believes she has never had a real orgasm. According to her no one has ever made her cum, she's a bit self conscious and she calls herself sexually awkward. It took her awhile to get comfortable with me, she wouldn't let me go down on her for awhile and didn't like me looking at her naked or at her vagina. We are now veer comfortable with each other and she let's me go down on her and let's me look at and touch her with no problems.So for her she says she gets to this high point and she feels she's right on the verge of an orgasm and then it goes away, she says she feels like there should be more to it. For her to get to this point I have to go deep in missionary and then let her do the rest, she has to hold me close and move herself and really focus to get to this point.I'm also the first guy that has ever made her feel anything with oral sex, She gets to that point with oral and then once she reaches that it just becomes irritating. She believes she may have a mental block, she was molested when she was young so that may have something to do with it, I also think it's a comfort thing. She says shes perfectly satisfied and that we have great sex, sex is something isn't entirely important to her. As her partner though of course I want to give her an orgasm a d I'm willing to do anything, I want to be the first guy that can get her there. I feel like it can happen and maybe we just need more time to figure her out and let her get completely comfortAble. Do you guys think she's having an orgasm a d it just isn't as strong, or that she has a mentAl block and is stopping herself right before she has one. Is she capable of having an orgasm? What else can we do to explore this. I want to fully satisfy her (though she says i do already)

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    Megadeth90

    Listen to ineligible, seriously! I'm fucking five foot four and clock in at about 6 inches andna less than average girth. I've never had any problems with my sex life, I've had about 8 partners now and i've never had a complaint. I used to be so self conscious before i was sexually active, I soon learned that I was worrying about NOTHING, I am who I am and I can't change that, I'm very happy with myself and you should be too. Confidence is all that matters!

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    Megadeth90

    Ok so in will start from the beginning. I met this girl a month ago, a really nice girl that I connected with right off the bat. Now I'm sort of a no strings attached type of guy at this point in my life, so for a girl to catch my interest romantically is big!

    We started with a movie, and from there we never stopped talking. I mean we would talk 24/7 on the phone, would see each other every chance we could and we couldn't keep our hands off of each other. It wasn't even sex we would just kiss for hours at a time and it was amazing, non sex needed we just enjoyed cuddling, kissing, talking and being with each other. It brought me back to the first time I was falling in love.

    We both had mutual friends that we didn't want to know about our relationship so we kept it a secret. We would see each other every night, spend the night, we have so much in common and i really thought we might fall in love. So here comes the problem, she has man issues.....worse than i thought to. She has this mentality that all men are liars, cheaters and will fuck her over and I never found out why. So here's where our problem is.

    Saturday night we went to a friends house one of the ones who wasn't supposed to know some kept it a secret. I had no desire to keep it a secret. The night goes on and I see the friend hitting on her the whole night, and she just sat with him and played back...so it seemed I was getting drunk. When she saw me in the kitchen she would try to flirt but then she would go back and sit with him and do they're thing. I had a feeling, a gut feeling they were going to fuck. So I kept drinking and let my anger get ahold of me and I told her later in the night that I don't think we should be together if she wants to keep this a secret. I was a fool to tell her that and she said I'm okay with that!

    So I leave, get home and realize how stupid I am and I start texting her apologizing. She replied aggressively every time and then told me I wasn't ready for a relationship and that she was going to hang with this guy then goodbye!

    So I wake up sober and text her apologizing again. She replies frantically saying how sorry she is, she was just drunk and that we should have never kept it a secret. She starts telling me how much she cares for me, how great I am and when she said I made a mistake I stopped her and said I knew you were going to fuck him.

    She replies, in was drunk and angry that you broke up with me, in thought you were going to go sleep with another girl so I slept with him to get even with you, she said she doesn't even remember it.

    She's told me now that I'm all she needs, she has admitted to being fucked up, she's poured her heart out with apology and has confessed how much she cares for me. She says she feels I'm her and she doesn't know why she did what she did. She's been crying the past 2 days straight, can't stop thinking about me, she basically hates herself for this.

    I feel the whole situation could have been avoided by both of us. We both agreed we thought the relationship was headed towards love. But how do you sleep with another guy like that if you really care this much for a person. Does she really care for me? Does she just have severe man issues? Am I a fool to feel the way I feel and want to still try this with her? Does this girl care for me and truly think I am her and that we could have fallen in love, she does not seem like the whorish type at all........but I wonder at this point, did I just get played, am I still being played? What do I do.

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    Megadeth90

    Lol I wanted to so bad last night but I felt weird being like hey....by the way....well I guess il just have to have a chat with her.

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    Megadeth90

    Ok so I have ran into a problem that I have never run into before, and that is sexual duration. I've had about 6 or 7 I believe this is number 7 for sexual partners and I've never had a problem lasting, even with the ones that I didn't use condoms with (trusted partners on bc) i was still able to last a good amount of time with.

    Well now I have this new partner and we have recently started having sex (with condoms) and she has to be the tightest girl I have ran into by far. Now she's like 4'11 so she is quite short but keep in mind I am fairly small guy at 5'4. She's so tight it took me a good amount of time to wiggle my middle finger inside of her even when she was soaking wet and it got to a point where I couldn't get it any farther I got it maybe half way to three quarters of the way in. My finger are tiny too, I'm talking size small glove with my fingers maybe being a little more than half an inch wide.

    Now comes my problem. The first night we had sex I lasted like a minute and was completely shocked and embarrassed and ive been trying to avoid having sex with her since. I gave her some excuse like "il feel better about having sex when your bc kicks in" which it will in like 4 more days, and she accepted that.

    At this point I don't know what to do, I'm worried this will happen every single time and I don't want to disappoint her. I also don't want to hurt her feelings, she asked me last night when I spent the night "why won't you have sex with me" and I assured her itmwas me and had nothing to do with her but I don't think she believes that. I feel like we have a good connection, we talk a lot and hang out a lot. We have a lot of fun together, I just don't want it to get ruined over this situation, do I be honest with her and tell her why i really am nervous to have sex with her or do I sit in my room all day playing with myself to try to build a longer duration (partially joking) but seriously......what do I do?

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    Megadeth90

    Good to hear, I didn't realize I had it until the other day when I was shaving and I happened to notice the area was white and dry looking, the next day that area had turned red. I've been using the cream 3 times a day though so I hope for it to be gone asap!

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    Megadeth90

    So has anyone here had jock itch before? I seem to have acquired it for the first time. The rash is on my scrotum and inner thighs, but here's my real concern. I just found a little bump on the bottom of my shaft and what scares me is it looks like a really really tiny wart. Now I jut shaved the other day so maybe I opened up a cut or something but my question is does this sound like it's a symptom of jock itch on the shaft or should I be freaking out running to planned parenthood this week? I had an STD check in June before my fight because I had to get licensed but I wasn't checked for herpes or warts.

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    Megadeth90

    Hey guys how's everyone been? It's been awhile. Well I'm twenty now, i just got back into college (I can finally afford it again!) and I'm one week away from my mma debut so everything is looking good again. I can't believe I'm one week from stepping in a cage I've been waiting for this forever. Well I hope life is treating everyone well here I'm glad to see a lot of familiar faces are still here(hey steph!!). Well I hope to be around here a bit more I've thought about this place a lot. Well cheers everyone!

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    Megadeth90

    Oh yeah? So thats what happens in mosh pits? Because ive been in plenty and thats never happened, "Thats what i get eh?" So i deserve to be jumped by six people because i was in a mosh pit? Im not going to start with you because right now i have nothing nice to say.To everyone else, yeah i agree i really need to cool down and i will take the time to do so. I dont want to get in trouble and revenge isnt really my style but in a town like this i will likely cross paths with them again, hopefully then it wont go as bad as the first encounter. Thanks all for the feedback.

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    Megadeth90

    Alright, so a few nights ago now i was at an All That Remains concert (heavy metal) its a concert i was invited to by friends, not typically my scene but i do like to mosh so i went along.

    The crowd seemed to be angrier than usual, especially for our town. Usually everyone is moshing for fun, helping each other out etc, this time it seemed like everyone was just there to fight.

    Anyway im moshing having fun and what not and out of no where someone kicks me from behind (push kicks my lower back) and it sent me forward a good bit and hurt my back pretty bad, so i turn around and some punk rock kid is signaling me to come over to him to fight. At this point i start walking towards him to find out why he kicked me and when i got within range he swung on, me and i swung back and the next thing i new i was on the ground with atleast six people punching and kicking me from all different angles.

    This is where im thankful for my training because if i had not have had it this could have been alot worse. So i somehow find my way back to my feet with all of these guys on me (keep in mind im 120lbs so they are jumping the smallest guy their, fucking pussies) so i hit my feet and start swinging.

    This last good minute or two before the gaurds get there. I honestly couldnt believe i was being jumped so i just started swinging for the fences in hopes of hurting some people and getting them off of me, i put 3 of them down before i got sent to the floor again and this time on my way back up i got my eye split open pretty bad.

    At this point im bleeding everywhere and i just remember standing back up and some black kid was in my face looking scared and i swung on him and just kept pushing forward, the gaurds ended up getting there shortly after.

    So the gaurds grab me and X me out of the club and wouldnt say one word to me while i was trying to explain what happened, they just smirked at me and threw me out on the streets and threw a towel at me.

    The bouncer looked like he could have been the older brother of the guy that initally started the fight, i dont know if this is true or not but may explian why they smiled at me and threw me out and wouldnt listen to my story. It might also be because when they got there i was swinging for the fences and 3 people where on the ground asleep, either way im pissed.

    At this point with my temper and fury i want to find those people and beat them to a bloody pulp. Considering i live in a small town where there are only so many places to go it wont be hard to find these people, especially since ive seen them previously and have a general idea of where they hang out.

    Everytime i look in the mirror and see this 2 inch fucking gash over my eye and my eye swollen i want to kill someone. I deep down want to hunt every single one of these people down and beat them to a bloody pulp. Im furious, and i have an army of furious friends and family behind me with people wanting to find these kids and do the same and then on the family side (my mother and siter) are telling me to let it go and not get in trouble, which is logical.

    I just dont know what to do right now, i havent had so much hate and anger in me since i was a kid, and im afriad its going to get the best of me, i dont want to get in trouble and at the same time i could find these people hurt them and be gone in a flash and they wouldnt know what hit them. I never thought i would be out for blood or vengeance but after these mother fuckers jumped me for no good reason, theirs a big part of me that wants to hurt someone very bad. Whats happening to this world?

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