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    MetalHead419

    Hey everyone, long time no see. How's everyone doing?I'm really embarrassed by this, so I'm just gonna tear off the metaphorical band-aid... My girlfriend and I have been having sex pretty regularly, and she has at least 1 orgasm every time we do. I, on the other hand, have not been able to every time. In fact, I've probably only 'gotten there' 1 in every 3 or 4 times. We usually go for a while, and she's always nice and 'lubricated', so that's not the issue. I genuinely don't mind it, but it is killing her self esteem and confidence 'in the bedroom.' She feels like I'm not turned on by her, that I don't enjoy making love to her, etc. etc. It feels amazing, and I always feel like I'm getting REALLY close, but then it sort of goes away, and I'm back to square one, like we just started, and I'm miles away. It's not frustrating for me, other than seeing her sad, almost hurt by it. I feel responsible for her sadness, and it's a terrible feeling.It happened again this morning (it's 7am here), and this was the first time we've had sex in a few days, so it's not a problem of too frequent. I do go kind of soft while we're making love, but it usually comes back shortly after, when I slow down, start kissing her, nibbling her neck. The few times it doesn't come back, we just wait a little while, cuddle, then when it comes back, I can orgasm no problem, usually faster than I want to lol. I can't tell if it's stamina, or if it's something physiological, or if it's something psychological. Any insight would be much appreciated. Thanks in advance.

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    MetalHead419

    That's just fucked up... I mean seriously, why in the fuck would anyone EVER post anything like this! I have never been this enraged in my LIFE! You didn't mention ONE fucking thing that pertains to ME!??! I have a vile, toxic mind, and you couldn't randomly name ONE thing that I have done or said!??! FUCK YOU!!!

    (I love t3h Interw3bz!)

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    That's fucked all to pieces. And about the "that's what happens in mosh pits" thought, I agree that some people lose it a little in mosh pits, but for 6 guys to attack someone for seemingly no reason is a little more than getting overly aggressive, that's down right insane. The only thing I can say is don't go hunting people down. If you see them somewhere, approach them to talk, and if they swing, you get 2 swings before it's assault. From what I've heard, that's all you'd need lol.People is crazy, sad but true.

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    ... so I'll stop trying. I'm currently laying on a pullout couch in a hotel in Great Lakes, IL. It's 2:25 in the morning, and about a hour ago, before I'd actually fallen asleep, I heard my friend Nick, recently graduated Sailor and my best friend, getting naughty with his ex, Brittany. Hooray for him, right? Nope, she has a boyfriend...FULL STORY: They've dated on and off for about 5 years now, they've been engaged, it fell through, he's hated her, loved her and vice versa, he's written her off, she's done the same, and she's cheated with him, but as far as I know, never ON him. She's now dating a guy, who she's been with since March I believe, and has been sick of him twice in that time period until, as far as I can tell, about a month ago... right when she decided she wanted to be with Nick again. She didn't break up with this guy, Brandon, because she wasn't sure if Nick would take her back. Brandon is actually at her house right now back home, watching her new kitten for her...She's cheated on this new guy with Nick at least once before Nick left for Basic, and confided it in me, which I have kept to myself, solely because I wasn't in it. Now, however, I feel that I am a little more involved with the situation. I'm writing this for a few reasons:1) In hopes that I will end up tired and able to sleep. (not lookin good)2) To ask if I should confront them or tell Brandon when I get home about what I heard, or just let them eventually tell him what's goin' down.3) To ask if I should tell Nick that she never even told Brandon that she was considering breaking up with him for Nick, and played Nick's heartstrings like a fucking violin.The only issue with not telling is that I would bet my ENTIRE life earnings that they would NEVER tell him what has gone down. Not really an issue, aside from the fact that Brandon has changed just about everything about himself FOR Brittany. Bought a new Mustang, started looking for a new job, stopped drinking as much, all because he genuinely loves her, and wants to, from what I've seen, spend his life with her.SIDE NOTE: I think I might actually vomit, but I can't tell why... it's either the pure, unadulterated rage I'm feeling at them for getting it on with me and his SLEEPING MOTHER in the room, or the complete, overwhelming disgust I'm feeling over the fact that they are back at this shit, even having seen how it always ends...

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    MetalHead419

    Hey everyone. Lately I've been wanting to pack on some muscle, and I'm hoping that you nice folks would have some tips.If it matters, I'm 6'1", I weigh in at a puny 140lbs, and the last time it was checked, my Body Fat Content is very low, if I remember correctly around 5-7%. As you can see, I'm quite underweight. I'd like to end up around 170 lbsI was hoping that someone might have ideas on what I should eat, and what exercises I could start with.Thanks!

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    MetalHead419

    Why can't we all just agree to disagree? Or at the VERY least, agree to keep from attacking other people's points of view. I am an atheist, and I'm offended that someone, ANYONE, regardless of POV, would take THAT much time out of their day to put together a well documented argument, just to make people think twice about what they believe. I believe it, you don't. Woo hoo!

    For example: (or 2 lol)

    I think that I should be a 50 in Halo 3 because I QUITE frequently out BR people who HAVE a highest skill of 50, or am a better Sniper, or strategist, but the system thinks I should be a 46. Shall I start a thread about that? Or maybe I should start one about whether or not Boxer Engines are better than Inline Engines or V-Block's, and why or why not. BUT, in the process, I'm going to tell everyone that DOESN'T agree with me that they're wrong... sound good? Oh, pointless you say? huh... strange how that works out...

    Edit: I know that you didn't directly state that atheists are wrong, but saying "if you have the guts" kind of makes it seem like your goal in all of this was to make us think, "Hey, maybe there is a grain of truth to the whole Divine Creation thing..." as if you are saying, "this proves you wrong, so only read it if you want to realize you're wrong"

    Thought I'd clarify that.

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    MetalHead419

    Well, first the update: I've been hanging out with this girl Kristin that I've kinda know for a few years. Never really hung out that much, just kinda said hi in the hallways and what not, now we're both single, but IDK what's going on with that. I'll keep posts comin' if anyone is interested lol.Now, the questions: First) Has anyone ever used Nero to create DVD's? And if so, Second) Would they be able/willing to guide me through the process. I have season 4 of Lost on DVD, and the aforementioned Kristin does not, but wants it. Presenting the issue. I have Nero 9 from a friend, but he only uses it for CD's. Either a PM or an IM to MoreThanMusic17, any advice would be appreciated!

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    MetalHead419

    lol For some reason, I sense an amount of sarcasm on that last statement.... odd...

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    MetalHead419

    ... from work, on my first day off, and I don't even mind that I lost a day of relaxation. I work at the Papa John's down the road as of Wednesday, and today was my first day I had scheduled off, but my boss Billy called me at 2 and asked that I rush in, so I did. I left at around 9:15, and it's a Saturday, so it was busy, and a little dizzying, but I found a way to not make any mistakes taking orders, nor on the ovens (taking pizzas out, cutting them, etc. etc.) The only thing I could have done better was sauce the pizzas, but since I had never done that before, Billy just took me off the make line and said I'd learn it on a Monday lol.

    Just putting up a rundown of my day, just to have told someone lol, even if only myself.

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