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    MetalHead419

    Hey everyone, long time no see. How's everyone doing?

    I'm really embarrassed by this, so I'm just gonna tear off the metaphorical band-aid... My girlfriend and I have been having sex pretty regularly, and she has at least 1 orgasm every time we do. I, on the other hand, have not been able to every time. In fact, I've probably only 'gotten there' 1 in every 3 or 4 times.

    We usually go for a while, and she's always nice and 'lubricated', so that's not the issue. I genuinely don't mind it, but it is killing her self esteem and confidence 'in the bedroom.' She feels like I'm not turned on by her, that I don't enjoy making love to her, etc. etc. It feels amazing, and I always feel like I'm getting REALLY close, but then it sort of goes away, and I'm back to square one, like we just started, and I'm miles away. It's not frustrating for me, other than seeing her sad, almost hurt by it. I feel responsible for her sadness, and it's a terrible feeling.

    It happened again this morning (it's 7am here), and this was the first time we've had sex in a few days, so it's not a problem of too frequent. I do go kind of soft while we're making love, but it usually comes back shortly after, when I slow down, start kissing her, nibbling her neck. The few times it doesn't come back, we just wait a little while, cuddle, then when it comes back, I can orgasm no problem, usually faster than I want to lol. I can't tell if it's stamina, or if it's something physiological, or if it's something psychological. Any insight would be much appreciated. Thanks in advance.

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    That's just fucked up... I mean seriously, why in the fuck would anyone EVER post anything like this! I have never been this enraged in my LIFE! You didn't mention ONE fucking thing that pertains to ME!??! I have a vile, toxic mind, and you couldn't randomly name ONE thing that I have done or said!??! FUCK YOU!!!

    (I love t3h Interw3bz!)

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    That's fucked all to pieces. And about the "that's what happens in mosh pits" thought, I agree that some people lose it a little in mosh pits, but for 6 guys to attack someone for seemingly no reason is a little more than getting overly aggressive, that's down right insane.

    The only thing I can say is don't go hunting people down. If you see them somewhere, approach them to talk, and if they swing, you get 2 swings before it's assault. From what I've heard, that's all you'd need lol.

    People is crazy, sad but true.

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    ... so I'll stop trying. I'm currently laying on a pullout couch in a hotel in Great Lakes, IL. It's 2:25 in the morning, and about a hour ago, before I'd actually fallen asleep, I heard my friend Nick, recently graduated Sailor and my best friend, getting naughty with his ex, Brittany. Hooray for him, right? Nope, she has a boyfriend...

    FULL STORY: They've dated on and off for about 5 years now, they've been engaged, it fell through, he's hated her, loved her and vice versa, he's written her off, she's done the same, and she's cheated with him, but as far as I know, never ON him. She's now dating a guy, who she's been with since March I believe, and has been sick of him twice in that time period until, as far as I can tell, about a month ago... right when she decided she wanted to be with Nick again. She didn't break up with this guy, Brandon, because she wasn't sure if Nick would take her back. Brandon is actually at her house right now back home, watching her new kitten for her...

    She's cheated on this new guy with Nick at least once before Nick left for Basic, and confided it in me, which I have kept to myself, solely because I wasn't in it. Now, however, I feel that I am a little more involved with the situation.

    I'm writing this for a few reasons:
    1) In hopes that I will end up tired and able to sleep. (not lookin good)
    2) To ask if I should confront them or tell Brandon when I get home about what I heard, or just let them eventually tell him what's goin' down.
    3) To ask if I should tell Nick that she never even told Brandon that she was considering breaking up with him for Nick, and played Nick's heartstrings like a fucking violin.

    The only issue with not telling is that I would bet my ENTIRE life earnings that they would NEVER tell him what has gone down. Not really an issue, aside from the fact that Brandon has changed just about everything about himself FOR Brittany. Bought a new Mustang, started looking for a new job, stopped drinking as much, all because he genuinely loves her, and wants to, from what I've seen, spend his life with her.

    SIDE NOTE: I think I might actually vomit, but I can't tell why... it's either the pure, unadulterated rage I'm feeling at them for getting it on with me and his SLEEPING MOTHER in the room, or the complete, overwhelming disgust I'm feeling over the fact that they are back at this shit, even having seen how it always ends...

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    MetalHead419

    Hey everyone. Lately I've been wanting to pack on some muscle, and I'm hoping that you nice folks would have some tips.

    If it matters, I'm 6'1", I weigh in at a puny 140lbs, and the last time it was checked, my Body Fat Content is very low, if I remember correctly around 5-7%. As you can see, I'm quite underweight. I'd like to end up around 170 lbs

    I was hoping that someone might have ideas on what I should eat, and what exercises I could start with.

    Thanks!

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    MetalHead419

    Why can't we all just agree to disagree? Or at the VERY least, agree to keep from attacking other people's points of view. I am an atheist, and I'm offended that someone, ANYONE, regardless of POV, would take THAT much time out of their day to put together a well documented argument, just to make people think twice about what they believe. I believe it, you don't. Woo hoo!

    For example: (or 2 lol)

    I think that I should be a 50 in Halo 3 because I QUITE frequently out BR people who HAVE a highest skill of 50, or am a better Sniper, or strategist, but the system thinks I should be a 46. Shall I start a thread about that? Or maybe I should start one about whether or not Boxer Engines are better than Inline Engines or V-Block's, and why or why not. BUT, in the process, I'm going to tell everyone that DOESN'T agree with me that they're wrong... sound good? Oh, pointless you say? huh... strange how that works out...

    Edit: I know that you didn't directly state that atheists are wrong, but saying "if you have the guts" kind of makes it seem like your goal in all of this was to make us think, "Hey, maybe there is a grain of truth to the whole Divine Creation thing..." as if you are saying, "this proves you wrong, so only read it if you want to realize you're wrong"

    Thought I'd clarify that.

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    Well, first the update: I've been hanging out with this girl Kristin that I've kinda know for a few years. Never really hung out that much, just kinda said hi in the hallways and what not, now we're both single, but IDK what's going on with that. I'll keep posts comin' if anyone is interested lol.

    Now, the questions: First) Has anyone ever used Nero to create DVD's? And if so, Second) Would they be able/willing to guide me through the process. I have season 4 of Lost on DVD, and the aforementioned Kristin does not, but wants it. Presenting the issue. I have Nero 9 from a friend, but he only uses it for CD's. Either a PM or an IM to MoreThanMusic17, any advice would be appreciated!

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    lol For some reason, I sense an amount of sarcasm on that last statement.... odd...

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    ... from work, on my first day off, and I don't even mind that I lost a day of relaxation. I work at the Papa John's down the road as of Wednesday, and today was my first day I had scheduled off, but my boss Billy called me at 2 and asked that I rush in, so I did. I left at around 9:15, and it's a Saturday, so it was busy, and a little dizzying, but I found a way to not make any mistakes taking orders, nor on the ovens (taking pizzas out, cutting them, etc. etc.) The only thing I could have done better was sauce the pizzas, but since I had never done that before, Billy just took me off the make line and said I'd learn it on a Monday lol.

    Just putting up a rundown of my day, just to have told someone lol, even if only myself.

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    I got a call from the local PD saying that the ticket was invalid because of an error in their computers... I'm assuming he said the equipment sucks and got me out of it... IDK, but I don't have to pay it, so I don't care lol

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    The officer said that he was just making an example of the equipment that they are using. According the him, the radar gun he's been using has been proven by him and 3 of his co-workers to be displaying a higher speed than the target is going, but they aren't replacing it for some reason. He wants be to go waste some peoples time, so that maybe they'll take notice.

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    Holy crap, I have been awake since 10 a.m. with NOTHING to do! Video Games just sound boring, I've watched nearly every movie in this house, there isn't anything on TV, this is the only site that I don't have a favorite for (changed lol) so I visit the rest in about 10 minutes, and Marisol, my lady friend, is back at school... an hour away... All I've done today is watch an obnoxious amount of YouTube videos, make a PB&J, and fill my gas tank and get a speeding ticket on the way home for 38 in a 35... I'm not going to have to pay it, the cop told me, but he said he had to ticket me because I was passing someone (who was doing 23, tops)... I hate this town...

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    It might be torsion of one of the testicular appendices. Happened to me in 2005. A simple ultra sound will determine if it's full torsion, or something less serious.

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    MetalHead419

    If you live in Central Ohio, you'll know that we didn't get any substantial amount of snow for the holiday season. I'm originally from Northern Indiana, so I missed the snow this year. That sucked a little, and to top it off, I had to repair my car for the past few weeks, so that was lame. And my mom has been jobless since May, so that was a little more of a burden than usual. Start of break = suck. The rest, however, completely changed that.

    On Christmas Eve, I had a date with a girl I've known for years. I got my car up and running again that day, two days ahead of schedule, so I didn't feel like a punk who couldn't drive his lady lol. I got back from the date, which went amazingly well, and my friend Nick called and said he had my Christmas gift early... a 27" flatscreen ZRT (tube) Television and a matching entertainment center... for my bedroom. Until now, I've been using the same 24" TV since 2000, so 480p is a MAJOR step up.

    On Christmas, I got some much needed clothes (most of mine were coated in oil or brake fluid) Fallout 3 (amazing) and a few other little things. Yesterday I hung out with Marisol, the girl I went on a date with. I walked her to the door when I dropped her off, gave her a hug, and she grabbed me by the back of my neck and laid one on me. Well, more than one... Then she said something I never expected to hear her say; "Ya know how I said I wasn't ready to date anyone? I was wrong. Pick me up at noon stud, and bring your bowling shoes..." and she went inside... It took me a few minutes to realize what had happened, but by the time I did, I was home.

    Today, my sister got home from spending the weekend with her boyfriend, and we went to BW3's for wings, where she won our meal simply by being there at the right time...

    Just felt like sharing, I'm in such a good mood. I get my entertainment center tomorrow, Marisol and I are going to a movie when she gets off work, and I have leftover wings... great week.

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    It's a 1999 Mitsubishi Eclipse GS-T. I already had Brembos on it, but they've since been removed and replaced with an identical set of Brembos, but with Red calipers this time around. Helps add some red to a mostly black car.

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    I haven't been on here in a while, so I'm gonna post an update, for anyone who remembers my previous thread about my road racing and my car, and wonders what's up with that.

    A month ago, I had an event in Tennessee, at which I got second, behind my sister's boyfriend, Brian. My car, however, didn't fair so well.

    The track we were lapping was pretty technical, which wasn't the problem. The prelim's put me in second, .31 seconds behind Brian in his STi (holy fast, Batman!) and 1 second before third, a Civic Si. The first race finished like prelim's did, meaning the top three, Brian, me, then the Si, started like that again. The second of three races, however, ended differently. I overtook Brian in the second to last corner, then drove defensively to a first place finish, meaning I'd start first in my third heat, no matter how anyone else finished, while he somehow fell to third.

    My third heat, the second to last one of the day, started at night, under the lights, which was only a small issue, but I could over come that easily. It was 5 laps, longest of the day, estimated to last 15 minutes for the first place finisher. In the fourth lap, I was chasing Brians STi, but closing quickly. Throughout the day, on the back straight, I had been hitting about 120mph, but for some reason this race I was hitting around 140mph for I had to brake for the third to last corner. This lap, I hit 157mph, braked for the corner, and slid past Brian to take to lead! Until the fifth lap on the back straight I had held him off, keeping my minimal lead alive. Last straight, last lap, and I have a lead... I downshifted for the last corner, fifth to third, shot through the corner, and buried the throttle for the straight away. 120, 130, 144, then brake... brake, BRAKE!!!!!! Apparently, I had damaged my front driver side brake pad, causing me to stop more slowly than usual! I turned into the corner early, hoping to bleed off speed when I changed direction, which worked, but gave up my lead to Brian (sad face). I came through the third to last corner, engine braking the whole way, second to last, hit the throttle, last corner, and I lost traction in the back tires entirely, spun a full 2 rotations, crossed the finish line in reverse at 40mph, and proceeded to slide off the track into the 'pits' (the prestaging area for the drag strip in the infield)

    I turned the car off, caught my breath, and was then dragged from my vehicle by Brian, thinking I was unconscious. As it turns out, my brakes had been slowly going all day, but I hadn't really noticed it enough to do anything about it.

    The Damage Report: Brakes on both front wheels, ruined; all four semi-slick tires, chewed to death by the spins; side skirts, smashed by the drop for track to infield to prestaging area; KYB Gas Shocks in the back, blown by overcompression, then overextention, then overcompression again when I left the ground; all in all, about $8,000 in damage, all for a $7,500 second place finish. I'm glad it is nearly covered by the finish, and I'm VERY thankful I didn't hurt anyone but my car, and that my only injury was a serious case harness burn. I'm counting my lucky stars, that's for sure.

    As of yesterday, the only thing my car needs is a rear suspension, which is in the mail from Japan right now. My burns are healed, I have a date with an amazing girl I've known for years, and she has decided she's driving, mainly because I don't have a car lol...

    So that's the size of that... just an update for those that want to know. Yes, I've learned from my mistakes, yes I know what I do is dangerous, and yes, I do have a new found respect for speed.

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    I guess so... Oh well, her loss...

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    OK, as some of you may know, I broke up with my girlfriend of a year and a half 2 months ago. Well, she broke up with me. On that day, she said that her new friend Matt had NOTHING to do with it. A month ago, I say on her Facebook that he was calling her sweetie, saying how much he missed her, yada yada yada, so I asked her what was up, trying to remain friends like SHE wanted. She said she was going to talk to him about the situation. 2 WEEKS AGO she said it was too soon for her to be dating someone. TODAY at 9:38pm, her Facebook says she's dating someone. WHAT THE FUCK AM I SUPPOSED TO BELIEVE!?>!!>?? I hung out with her TODAY! and when I asked her if anything new had come into her life, she said no. I have NEVER felt this angry, betrayed, and lied to at once. Just venting a little I guess... too bad my car is in the shop, or I'd be doin about 175 right now, blowing my speakers...

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