You're here to live. So live.
The real problem is making it fun and interesting I find. I can speak about anything but that doesn't mean it's interesting! Can you hold long conversations with friends? I always tend to talk to girls the same way i talk to my friends and it's never really failed me. (Though that would depend on how you talk to your friends). =)
Try find a point of interest and stick at it. If you make a joke you can bring it up later sort of as a backtrack if it's relevant to the conversation once more (just don't overuse it).
Saying that, to be honest (in my opinion) you're a talker or your not. I don't think that talking long amounts of time is a great feat, but being interesting when you do talk is. =)
Why is it you people group guys as a whole? I mean the majority of guys I know and knew from 13-16 wouldn't even think of sex unless they knew they where in a sturdy relationship.
But not all people are the same - as said before some people are just sex crazed. And I also agree that you give in way to easily to guys who say things like that if you do and also I don't really believe your 19 either.
I agree that he is being immature. If you've been going out a year he should at least be able to talk to you about it. I've always thought that two of the basics in a relationship are communication and honesty. So if he thinks your lying and won't talk to you about it then in my opinion you need to sort this out pretty quickly.
Sitting on someone's lap is not what i would class as cheating but I would be pretty jealous if my girl were to do it. But it's not something I'd break up a realtionship over.
Talking to him is all I can suggest - and if he won't see your point of view then I'm afraid you'll probably have to move on.
The Unofficial Guide to Getting Over Shyness - By Moose
This post is for those of you of a shy nature and who don't know how to talk to the opposite sex. It's a common problem I keep seeing up and all over the place both here and in real life. So this is my sort of "guide" to talking to the opposite sex or getting your point accross to the person you like.
Example: "When I try to talk to the opposite sex (or the person I like) I'm unable to get a good coversation going or not say anything at all."
Ok, this is a common problem and I've seem it alot both in real life and here. There really is no easy cure for this, only that you must be comfortable around him/her. There are a few pointers however that I've collected that might help people in this position.
Be yourself (the classic) don't try to be cool or loud because otherwise the person you ike isn't getting to know you but someone else.
Try to stay calm, you don't have to talk masses and once you get talking it should become easier.
Talk about simple things, simple questions give simple answers then simple questions again back - a good way to get going
Once you've been talking for a while hopefully you'll forget all this and just interact as you do with your friends - which is good
You don't have to be funny, having a serious conversation is just as good
The opposite sex:
Once you get to know a few talking to the rest should become second nature.
For the special someone you like:
Don't use chat up lines, they're cheesey
Compliments are ALWAYS good - sneak them in here and there
Don't go in too fast, there is not huge rush :P
Don't go in too slow, someone else might steal them
A little teasing can be good but not everyone likes it and not in excess
Please note, i take no responsibilty for anything that goes wrong and I do not admit to this being "The ultimate guide" after all it's only my own collections of things I've picked up.
If you have anything you think should be included or rephrased/changed PM / E-mail me and I will consider it. </font color>
Comments would be greatly appreciated!
Her cycles have been a bit strange at late anyway, for example she had one but it lasted only 1 and a half days is what she told me and it wasnt nearly as bad as usual...? shrugs
If shes pregnanat I have no idea what I'm gonna do, but i guess i knew the risks...
I was having sex with my girlfriend tonight and basically the condom came off inside her. I managed to get it out with my two fingers though. Now I did not ejactulate, and it can't have been off for very long - it's just I'm very worried about her being pregnant. I'd just like some outside opinion on how likely this would be. I'm very worried for her and me. The condom didnt split or anything and it may have had a touch of precum in (I dont precum much at all) but I'm hoping it will have stayed inside if there was any, and the risk isnt that high with precum anyway right?
Please reply quickly.