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    Alright, well i've been hanging out with this girl for a while now and i've really started liking her a lot. We have a ton in common and i think we'd be really good together. She's just about all i think about and i love hanging out with her.Problem though. She has a boyfriend. She never talks about him, i never hear of her hanging out with him and she talks to me more than him. She's also been kind of flirty around me lately, but i don't think i know her well enough to say if she doesn't isn't like that around all of her male friends.What, if anything, should i do? I need to do something, i can't keep this up for much longer, it really sucks liking someone this much and not being able to do anything about it.Please help!

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    Originally Posted By: ClassyBlackWomanWell, what is all there to do in your small town? Besides the stuff I previously mentioned.. umm, there's alot of nice bars, but I'm not 18 :P Haha. Uhm, we have a semi-pro hockey team which would be good since she likes hockey, but they don't have any home games this weekend. The only other thing thatever goes on around here are house parties and that kind of thing. Wow, I honestly can't think of anything besides that and the stuff I mentioned in my previous post. This town is kind of boring Guess that's why I came here, for some outside-the-box ideas :P

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    Okay, I'm 17. The girl I'm going to be asking out is 18.. we live in a smaller city so there isn't alot to do. We've been out a few times.. we've done dinner, then a movie another day, then we went and played pool another day, and just this weekend we went out for dinner again. What are some other good ideas for dates? I'm planning on asking her out next time we do something, so preferrably something kind of romantic and sweet that she would like.Thanks so much for any replies

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    Judging from what you said, I think she definately likes you and you should ask her out.

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    Wow, thanks I'll definately have to give that book a shot, sounds like it could help me out alot

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    Well, thank you to both of you. I honestly appreciate the advice.

    And Starfish, I think you're definately right, lol. I'm that way about anything when it comes to women and their crazy signs XD

    Thanks again.

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    Yea, I'm not so sure either.. I mean, some days I'm positive that she likes me, just by the way she talks to me, her body language, and the fact that she's obviously flirting with me. But every now and then, there is a day like Monday where everything feels really flat.. I dunno. Thanks

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    Yea, another thread from another clueless guy. Go figure. But I really do need help, so I appreciate any replies Anywho, so there's this girl that I work with. Her and I have become pretty good friends, we hang out outside of work, etc. However, I've become really interested in her, and people at work think there's something going on, and a couple of my friends think that she's interested for sure just by the way she acts around me. And in fact, we've even gone out on two dates, once out for a nice dinner and once to a movie, which was actually just recently on Sunday. But now on Monday at work, she hardly said anything to me. Talk about mixed signals. That and I don't notice or think she acts any different towards me than she does to anybody else, since she's very outgoing.So does it sound like she's interested? What should I do about this whole situation? Should I ask her out again? One of my female friends suggested that I get one of my friends to ask her how she feels about me. Is this a good idea? Help please!

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    ^topic.

    I guess this is mostly for guys, but gals can feel free to post too, haha. And try to be honest, too. We don't judge :smile:

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    Okay, here's the situation. Well, there's this girl that I like. On Saturday we had planned to go to dinner and a movie, which went very well, except for the fact that we lost track of time talking at dinner, so it was too late for a show. That's all fine and dandy, so I dropped her off at her house. No kiss, unfortunately, but she did say we should go out again. So we're going to that movie that we missed on Thursday. However, assuming things go fairly well, I'd like to ask her out on a third date. Unfortunately, I need ideas! I don't want to do dinner and a movie again, because then it will seem like I don't know what else to do (which I guess is somewhat true, given the circumstances.) Any suggestions? I was hoping to ask her about it when we go out on Thursday, so we could go out on the weekend.. any help is much appreciated.Thank you.

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