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    Well see the thing about being ugly...I don't have a very low confidence, im always really funny and outgoing around people, just...I know i am ugly. If i weighed 300 pounds I would know I was fat, and there's really no lie to that. People have called me ugly, even freinds just joking around, my whole life and its just something people think about me, and like you said, jokes are always 1/2 way true becuase its in their head. It wouldn't be if its not true.But other than that, I know from experiance that even if a confident guy came up to me, told me he was bi and liked me, and i found him really ugly, i would probably get grossed out and quit talking to him because I know from experiance that "crushes" really don't die easy. And i think thats what grosses other guys out. Yeah Im sure they wouldn't care if your bi, my freinds don't, but if i liked them, im sure theyd be grossed out.And if you sit there and say "hey are you bi?" and their like "umm why??" and you say "well I am" then it sounds like your coming on to them. And there's really no right way to just say you're bi randomly unless a freind says something.

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    If you guys went to my high school, you'de be used to seeing people stick their tounges all down each others throats...giving handjobs and blow jobs....even fucking just like, right in the open. Lmfao j/k....sorta.

    But I think guys kissing is romantic but thats cuz I'm bi. And I don't mind seeing straight people kiss, by two best freinds are together and they do it all the time. I'm not really scared to kiss a guy in public, I held hands with a guy in a church with like tonnnnns of people (it was like this thing at a church where basically everyone at my school shows up, its like this big band/skating event). So im not a wuss. No one said anything. But we also had a lesbo couple walking around to so I doubt it seemed odd.

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    Tainted cock lmfao
    reminds me of the song Tainted Love.

    Anyway my stool is usually really firm....also though I don't know exactly what a enama is...i know it basically cleans the inside of your butt...but is it something you have to buy??? I really don't know...Honestly I could live my entire life without buttsex, it doesn't really turn me on, nor does sticking my dick in anything really turn me on....im more used to masterbating, thats why i like handjobs and blowjobs but I think my possible partner wants more. You know whats really nasty though, is when guys will give rim jobs, that is so discusting. Some gay guys do some nasty stuff, especilly the older ones, and I'm not saying it couldn't happen with a straight couple but seriously, it's nasty.

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    I'mmmmm backkkk!!!! And this time not to start a big depressing chaotic thread like a long time ago. Anyway this site never fails me when I really need a question. Again, I KNOW this can be found with probably some searching and all, but also, I havent been here in forever and I'm like Janet Jackson singing at a football game, I want my pressence to be very known! (lmfao)Anyway, I may have buttsex with with a guy I may meet up with in a few months. I've had the chance to have buttsex before but didnt because i was afraid of the poop =(. I hate poop. Don't like it. Anyway, I heard some things like if you don't eat for long time, you're butt will be clean...and stuff. Anything like that true? What if you poop like a day before so you know nothing has built up in there? Or would that make the butt poopier than it would be??I just know i experimented and stuck a really thin object up my bbutt a lil and poop got all over it =(. So yeah, any advice?Like Janet Jackson though, isn't this just a grand presence???Oh wait 0_0Can't be her without this ---> ( . ) / )(lmao her revealing just one tit :P)

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    Well no matter what, I generall want friends/girlfreinds I feel comfortable and connecting around. Generally, preppy, urban, country, or conservative girls I don't feel comfy around at all. Music tastes, styles, things they talk about, social things, and hobbies those types of people are into are completely different from mine.I feel more comfortable talking to girls who belong to more of a scene, rocker, goth, skater, tomboy or druggie clique, because these people generally like the same music i do, and talk about things i know about, and generally don't do school sponsored activities which isn't something im into either, plus these types are alot more laid back (like not as stict on things like manners or sexual subjects) and are more willing to find things like sex a normal part of a relationship or even freindship. Pretty much, im not really that picky becuase my type of people is probably about 50% of the population and generally speaking, I wouldn't be any more "cool" to preppy people than rocker/skater people because I simply don't "look" cool. You know, (taking two examples of famous teen actors), you could take Shia LaBouf and um (not a actor) any guy from the band The Jonas Brothers and dress them both in the same exact clothing outfit, and make it something sorta cool "rock star" ish and who'd look cooler in it? Definatly ona the band guys cuz Shia LaBouf just doesn't look "cool", and its quite reflective of that in many of the movies and shows he's played in.You can even look on TV. You know, TV and Movies don't cast people equally. If a role calls for somoene nerdy/dorky/loserish, the show casts someone who NATURALLY looks a bit nerdy, and if they want a popular cool person, they cast someone who naturally looks that. And if life was a TV show, I'de be casted as the loser/maybe even a special ed person.I mean honestly, unless you ona the rare few who can put up with becoming a famous actor by play roles of ugly people because you are butt ugly (ex. the guy who played wormtail on Harry Potter/Beadle on Sweeney Todd/Queen's sidekick on Enchanted), you don't see horrendously ugly people becoming famous while showing their face. They always become songwriters writing for other people, or doing voice-overs for cartoons, or just doing SOMETHING behind the scenes. I want to become successful while people actually knowing who i am and showing my face, EX. Singing, Acting, Inventing, Writing, Hosting (like a TV show), Politician, Comedian, Musician, Model, Chef (on tv?), News Reporter, Interviewer, ect. I've always saw my future in that sort of critique, but I've always been embarrased about my face and i feel like none of those things can happen with how i look, and even the people i want to meet and know and be with seem out of reach for me just because of looks.

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    It's not just cuz of her weight, its because she has nothing in common with me.I go for style and personality more than body looks.But i want someone who's "my type" to like me for me.I just dont want any random person out there.

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    Honestly, if i was in your situation, first thing i would do is sit at the "nerd table". Every school has one, and nerds are pretty nice people so im sure they'd at least say hello if you sat down. After you sit there for a few days, maybe you'll meet some freinds, or if the people at that table don't spark your interest, just look around the room and see if there's anyone from your classes. If you see someone who looks intresting to you, who's in ona your classes, just go up to the table and be like "Hey, you're in Mrs. So-and-so's class right? Mind if i sit here?" and if they ask who you are, just lie and be like "Well, im (insert your name). I'm new here". People seem to like new kids alot.Also, try to find people who look like you, like style and stuff. Its not really a great idea if your white and nerdy to go up to the gangster table and wanna sit down. Just find a table that looks like it would be comfortable with you around.One more thing, try talking to somoene that is in the class you have lunch in, or right before. If you make a freind in that class, you could be like, "hey, mind if i eat lunch with you?"

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    Ok, for this past year, I've been looking for a girl who I'm personally physically attracted to, and at the same time that girl needs to have a good personality. About the only way i really fall for someone it seems like, is if i find someone hot, mess around with them, then get to know them, then fall in love. Also means i want someone sexual active.First of the year, I met a girl in my class. She was REALLY overweight, preppy, "appearingly" innocent, christian and that whole package. Basically opposite from me and the type i go for. Nothing turned me on about her, and she's not intrested in anything I am, and the only reason me and her are freinds is cuz we're nice to each other. Well from the begginning, she's had a crush on me. Through time, i learned that she is sorta sexually active (at the rare times she can be) and she drinks some, but of coarse, what good does that do if im not attracted to her. And this whole year, ive had no luck finding the right girl for me, well i have, but the girls always turn me down. Anyway, this girl is a good freind of mine, and i trust her alot, so naturally ill talk to her at times about the girls ive tried to get and have crushes on. Well she asked me out at the begginnign of the year, and i said "well, i don't know you real well yet, so let's just be freinds and see how things go through the year". But as time passes, and i met new peopel and get crushes and talk to her about it, im sure she's realized "hey he just doesn't like me".Well whenever i talk about someone i like, and the sort of girl ide go after, she'll say things like "well i'm sexual active" or " I drink sometimes" and stuff trying to be like "well hey im what your looking for so what gives?"...and ive told her i think she's cute but in all reality, im not attracted to her at all, mainly because of her weight.Its sort of a issue alot, and i never know what to say.I think saying "well i just see you as a good freind" would be appropriate, just...many other guys have said the same thing to her, and im sure it hurts her.Talking to her about other people probably hurts her, especially since I might actually would have dated her if her looks appealed to me, and at the same time, her being still a good freind to me, i can't help but talk about what i feel like talking about.This is one main reason i hate being ugly, is because a buncha really ugly people think they have a chance with me, then i have to turn them down and be their friend cuz i still am a nice person, and then it causes a buncha drama.But what do i do? schools almost over and i sorta plan on drifting away from her over summer cuz im graduating, but idk. I just wish she'd at least find a boyfreind so things would be ok.

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    Well being bald, as like someone who's a biker or something, like shaved they're head, is considered a attractive thing i guess. It sorta represents a 'bad ass' type of thing, and girls like that. But being bald on purpose or because of old age doesnt happen or get attractive till older ages, not teenagers. So thats not really connecting to my situation.And some girls do find chubby guys attractive. But even those chubby guys the girls like probably have good faces, im sure there'd be someone of equal weight with a bad face that a girl would find ugly. Like i said, its all in the face.

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