Try using some toys, vibrators; etc.
Does he know where to touch you? Is he aware that your orgasm comes from your clitoris?
When he's giving you oral, maybe you'll have to gently move him to your clitoris, same thing when he's masturbating you. Show him where your clitoris is.
Are you comfortable enough letting him see it?
It was in my g/f's basement. We were both 14 and both little horn dogs!
Over a period of time, we started making out, which led to heavy petting, feeling her tits, which led to me finger fucking her to me finally fucking her.
She had the wettest pussy I've ever encountered.
I'd just slip my hands down her pants and she'd be dripping wet!
Mofified doggy style. She kneels on the bed and I stand on the floor and enter her from behind. It's an incredible feeling on the underside of my dick. It's an unrestricted feeling as though the only two things touching are my dick in her cunt.
Plus in this position, as the male thrusts, the shaft of the penis rubs on her g-spot, making it extremely pleasurable for her.
I can watch myself penetrate her from this position as well as see her anus, which is a real turn on for me.
Plus, I can reach around and massage her clit or caress her tits.
And, I can grab her ass and spread her cheeks, which let's me in just a little deeper.
And that slapping sound of my balls hitting her!!!!
My wife LOVES it. The most erotic time was when I fucked her from behind in a pool. The buoyancy of her made it so pleasurable for both of us. Plus once I came, my dick stayed hard like forever. We went to the stair area and she gave me a blow job.
She loves it in whirlpools / hot tubs too. When we're in one, I can't hardly keep her off of me.
The other people are right, water does not lube at all. Have her put some KY jelly up her cunt first. It's water soluble, but it helps.
Yes, oral sex is that common, for both genders.
I can understand how he may smell after work.
How about taking him in for a common shower (the two of you) BEFORE he goes to work? And then give him what he wants?
I guarantee, he'll have a much better day at work!
My wife has surprised me this way on several occasions, and when I came home that night we had magical lovemaking!