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    starfish

    Originally Posted By: PepsiChaser

    How old is too old to trick or treat?

    What do you all think? Do you get upset at some 15+ year old showing up at your door? If so why?

    Well I can guarantee you my nearly-fifteen-year-old would find turning up at someone's door a bit weird!

    Ha ha!.. How are you all?

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    starfish

    Originally Posted By: Dantek

    although id like to point out that its fair to blame whatever you believe created people because if this were a fair world, men wouldnt hit their sexual peak at 18 and women around 45-50! i know im hilarious right?

    Thankfully that's not true Dantak, lol. Women are well known to hit their sexual peak at 15/20 years before menopause, which lands most women at the age of about 30/35. (and I can personally attest to that, lol)

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    starfish

    There's nothing you can do Sadbuttrue, and to be honest it isn't your place to try to decide what the best decisions are for him to make in his own romantic life. As his close long-time friend, your role here is not to dictate his life for him; it's to help him pick up the pieces if he makes the wrong decisions for himself.

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    starfish

    I am really stunned that you feel "betrayed as a friend" because this girl is sleeping with someone and hasn't told you! I must betray my friends every day of the week by your standards because I certainly don't go around assuming they have the right to know what's going on in my sex life!

    If you care for this person as much as you say I don't see the problem with being honest with her. It's very simple: you just tell her that you got to hearing that she is sleeping with this guy and also that she is not his only partner. Also though, you should add that you don't know how much truth there is to that rumor, because the fact is (unless you witnessed him having sex with someone else) you actually don't.

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    starfish

     Originally Posted By: bobalicious
    Nope! I'd actually feel sorry for anybody like Starfish or yourself to go to that place, I honestly don't know a single person that I like who goes there!


    I do; and that would be my sister. I think there's a lot of snobby fuckers in there, but also many innumerable begrudging fuckers who resent the fact that they didn't get into the best university in the country, and that they outnumber Trinity students by about ten to one. I should know by May at the latest so I'll let you know whether you can count me among those unlikeable fuckers! LOL!

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    starfish

    Originally Posted By: pinkranger4

    He's obviously not going to change his mind about marrying this woman. You know that. So why continue to bitch and push?

    Nope. Just stating my opinion like I'm allowed to.

    Actually I had stepped out of contributing to this conversation until your post directed at me which was so obviously requiring of a response. I don't know who you think you are, but there is a world of difference between opining and instructing, and you needn't bother ever instructing me how to structure my posts again, unless you're looking to be promptly told to fuckoff.

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    starfish

     Originally Posted By: pinkranger4
    The posts that those have made here.. make people hurt, make people depressed and often make them think about suicide.


    And what effect do you imagine his plans would have on the mindset of the unsuspecting female involved here? The exact strategy he is planning has driven women (God alone knows how many of them) to suicide - have a quick look round the net and provide yourself with some facts.

    You’ve switched modes here from saccharine sweet to a nosy, presumptuous and intrusive busybody Pink Ranger. You are NOT the Post Police – don’t assume the right to tell me what to post. If you don’t like the tone of my posts there’s a simple way out of that: Don’t read them.

    If you think the “help” this poster came here looking for; suggestions on how to feign arousal where he feels none in order to deceive a woman for the rest of her natural life, is acceptable, you and I are VERY MUCH in disagreement. Like Ntro and LTTA, I agree that this is WHOLLY INAPPROPRIATE ADVICE TO BE SOUGHT OR GIVEN on these boards. If YOU think THAT is appropriate advice for anyone to give him go ahead and give him your tips on how to fake a hard-on yourself.

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    starfish

    Originally Posted By: Grvtykllr

    if he finds a woman thats in the know and is Ok with it who the fuck are to say its wrong?

    I'd never in a million years put any couple down for making that choice in their marriage Chance, never. How two people (married or otherwise) decide to conduct their own union is their own business. The point here is that it is not a couple doing the deciding; it is, as Ntro has just pointed out, one person doing the deciding for both of them and there's just no other way to view that as far as I'm concerned other than wrong.

    I do get what you're saying about going round in circles on the same issue and ending up feeling like you're banging your head against a brick wall; still though, I reckon if you found out the woman in question was your sister or daughter you'd be back to "fucking disgusting" pretty damn fast.

    & Oldfolks; I am basing my views on the same thing everyone else is basing theirs on, which is the OP's own words on this thread.

    Anyway, I think I've had enough of this discussion. To be honest I am finding it saddening and depressing that choices like this are presumed by some to be acceptable in this world.

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    starfish

    This is the portion of your earlier post I'm referring to Chance, by the way:

    Originally Posted By: Grvtykllr

    to lie to a person and have kids with them and all the time they think you love them and are attracted to them the full time knowing your not, is fucking disgusting.

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