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    stupid_man

    Glad things are going better for you!

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    stupid_man

    Its been five months since my triumphant (if I do say so myself) return but I forgot to really return.

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    I have one. I don't use it as much as I thought I would, there is too much preparation and clean up. If you do it right, warm it up in water and follow the direction it feels very close to the real thing. I really enjoy it, but I made the mistake of washing it with soap and while it still feels nice it doesn't feel real anymore. If you are purchasing a real FleshLight they are all the same whether its a vagina, butt, mouth, or plain. Just the inside is different if you purchase a different groove pattern. I only have the plain one and never tried the others. I doubt it will help you with stamina anymore than regular masturbation. Also, you can enjoy the fleshlight no matter what your dick size may be, being longer won't make you get more out of it, if anything it may make it uncomfortable if you can reach the end of the light.

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    Its weird how this board affected my life off of the board. I definitely understand exactly what you are saying in your post. I only let one person from the "real world" in on this site, well he is dead now. This site is really a private escape that I have used over the years and is great to have. I remember when it was even difficult to post on here, or write things that weren't "completely honest" because I was even ashamed of strangers. A few of us were lucky to be the first (and essentially the last) to have grown up on the boards. I am not grateful for many things (as I am a cocky bastard) but this site was there through the thick and the thin. In reality my ex was only a small portion of my life, now years later barely flickering on my radar. Without a site like this which helped me through it, maybe I would have dwelled longer. CR hopefully you'll stick around. It was all of our incessant back and forth banter that really helped this site get off the ground in the first place!

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    It is definitely important to keep school in mind. Taking classes that actually will apply towards your graduation is a huge part of it. If you take a few classes and load up in your remaining semesters you can still graduate on time, if not early depending on your requirements. School needs to be the main priority and that trip to Paris needs to reflect your academic accomplishments. I know with my college I could have gone to Rome, Japan, Paris, and lots of places. I really wanted to go to one of those, but London had the program that would associate directly with my major so I had applied to that one (and as I mentioned earlier backed out of it). Your youth in this situation and decision is the one thing you really have going for you. Yes you can fall into debt, but even not going I'm sure you are full of debt, I know I am, my student loans are kicking my ass now that they are in repayment and still don't have the greatest job. (Graduated with my masters Aug. 2010) But you will have plenty of time to figure that out later, but plan responsibly. Unfortunately many say to wait and travel Europe after you graduate. For the majority of younger people this is an impossibility. Your loans will hit repayment, you don't have the funding in your accounts, and you are not eligible for any abroad programs once you have a degree. Back packing across Europe was a luxury that was lost for the majority of people a few decades ago. Its not responsible to pick up and go on a spirit quest. In the end, I believe, it would be more economical and responsible to go while you are still in school and can use loans to pay your way, so you can be safe while your there!

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    Ever get a response? Just odd since the guys paying for it, and at least updated the copyright text on the homepage to reflect 2011.The website itself surely would scare new people away. ads randomly placed and abruptly placed pictures of genitals definitely makes it looks like a mix between a porn site and a scammer site. The life of the website has always been the forums, and it could still exist in the form of an anonymous social networking site.But we shouldn't be so down on the site. Regardless, the site has less active members however the few that do visit are still being helped and are learning, and in the end isn't that what matters?

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    Well while I can't give you insight on the cost of living in Paris what I can do is give you insight as someone who gave up studying abroad. I was going to go to London for the summer, unfortunately it would have been around $6000 or $7000 to go, instead I took a summer job. Its honestly the only thing I regret in life. Whatever you do, find a way to go and make it happen. You can always pay the debt back later, but you shouldn't sacrifice the amount you may grow as a person by going.

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    You definitely have a point. I left this site for many years after MySpace and Facebook came around. I think the site is still very unique in a lot of ways. You can't go on Facebook and start a penis size thread or ask those embarrassing questions you may have had. Sure there are sites like WebMD and others with forums out there, but they are so commercials. A2A still allows for a greater sense of anonymity and hosts a lack of judgement that is difficult to find anywhere else on the web. Maybe its the niche group that had been created here.This site is a true testament to so a social experiment. There are so many loyal visitors and many who disappear and years later check in still expecting people to remember them. No other site offers that (Especially an anonymous one, albeit, many identities have been learned over the years, even a wedding came of this site if I remember correctly). I think this place could have a life again. Granted the owner probably doesn't even know he's still paying for the .com or paid for several years and simply forgot about it. As when I first joined the site some of those guides were still in progress and well its been quite awhile. But I think with a few updates and a little rebranding this site could be something again. It would be nice it the doc had a renewed interest. Eh, maybe we should buy the .com from him lol.

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    Just a thought. With so many capable members on the site. Have there ever been any real marketing for the site or search engine optimization done? To be honest the site is a little dated in its forum software. It can definitely turn new members away because its not very sleek. Also if you aren't familiar with computers and dont know how to avoid the pop ups, Its difficult to navigate. You'd think with all of the differing backgrounds from the loyal members of this board we'd be able to find a way to bring it back to life. You know spruce up the board topics, consolidate a few to make the board look more active. New color scheme. yadda yadda yadda. We could save the place. I know when I returned I was a little disappointed to see what little remained from the good old days.

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    I was mad at a friend once when I was making breakfast so I jizzed in the pancake mix.

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