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    Yes I know buspar but I NEVER read any testimony online where somebody said it worked for him.
    I also have books by psychiatrists and they also write that buspar is useless.

    Another problem is that buspar + ssri can cause serotonin syndrome. And I'm currently on effexor.
    I don't know how risky it would be to add buspar to the mix.

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    But I'm scared now and I also cannot simply get rid of this fear.

    My worry is that I absolutely did not know that it's very hard to disinfect porous surfaces and some of the toys I bought were made of jelly which is porous! This means that spraying alcohol on these toys probably did not do much at all.

    And rubber pussies also cannot be disinfected they are also made of porous material. I mean what if somebody used one of those vaginas which I bought before and came in it and then rinsed it and sent the item back saying he didn't use it and the seller sells it again as new?

    And I am also worried because of the story of a woman who supposedly got HIV from a manecure! If this is true and if the virus could survive long enough on manecure equipment then this means that the virus does NOT die that quickly outside of the body.

    And what about other diseases like Hepatitis C? I have no idea how long this virus can survive outside of the body. There are viruses which can live for weeks or months! The rabies virus can survive many months! I feel really bad now.

    Can I simply go to a doctor and demand a HIV test and a Hepatitis C test or can he say that he doesn't think this is necessary? And I also don't know if there are any other dangerous diseases which I should get tested for.

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    Hi, what other drugs do you mean? You mean stuff like lyrica?
    I tried lyrica and it made me forgetful so I got off it. I also read a lot of bad things about it so I don't
    want to be on it.

    I tried a few ssris and also cymbalta,remeron and wellbutrin and anafranil but anafranil had too many side effects. But none of the drugs helped my anxiety at all. As soon as I think about something scary I become
    scared.

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    Hello,
    I have always been anxious about getting an STD from a sex toy in case that the online seller accidentally sold a used one which was refunded or that the seller buys from a source which sells used sex toys which are refurbished.
    I don't know how likely this is but just think about what's all happening in our times. I mean they fake drugs and plane parts. Why should they not also resell used sex toys!?

    Anway, I have always been told things like "You cannot get HIV from a sex toy which you buy online cause the virus would never survive such a long time".

    But now I heard about a story where a woman supposedly got HIV from a manicure and that scientists are now worrying that maybe the HIV virus actually survives MUCH longer on surfaces than we thought!

    Because of this I'm totally freaked out now. What if I really bought a sex toy which was used?
    I have never bought a sex toy which was sealed in plastic so that the customer knows for sure that it's really new and not used! I don't know why companies do not pay attention to something like this.
    Sex toys usually come in boxes which you can simply open and take it out. How sick is this!?

    Anyway, most of the toys which I used I cleaned before use and sprayed an alcohol based disinfection spray on it. On the lable it says that it kills viruses in 20 seconds. So I thought that by doing this I'm on the safe side.

    BUT now I read that viruses are VERY hard to kill on surfaces like plastic and most sex toys are made of plastic which is porous! I have a few prostate massagers and they are all made of plastic!
    My concern is that all basically my disinfection attempts were totally useless because of the plastic material. I also bought an artificial vagina which is made of TPE or silicone.

    I am really totally freaked out now. What do I do now?
    I think I will throw all my toys away. I cannot use them anymore now. But the fear doesn't go away even if I throw them away cause I used them.

    Even if I wanted to get tested for STDs then how shall I do this?
    Can I simply go to my doc and tell him I want to get tested for all STDs and contagious diseases?
    But how shall I explain this? And I also don't know which STDs and contagious diseases should I get tested for and how long is the time which you have to wait before you can even test if you've caught it?

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    sully

    Yes I worry a lot, I have an anxiety disorder. This sucks but there isn't much I can do about it.
    I have been on antidepressants since 2012 and they don't reduce the anxiety at all. They're really
    useless.

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    sully

    I'm not sure. Should a condom if it has the right size unroll over the penis without having to use
    any force? The 52mm condom which I use require force when I want to unroll them. However once
    they are on and I'm fully hard they fit and stay on and don't roll back and forth. This is an issue I had
    with bigger condoms they would just move back and forth which really sucked.

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    Ey floaters cause of masturbation!? This is damn scary!

    I have floaters. Got them a few years ago and they really depress me. :(

    Could this have been due to masturbation?
    But floaters don't just go away anymore. I wish they did. So there is nothing I
    can do about it now.

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    Okay thanks then I better take out the batteries. It's really crazy when you think about it that
    a toy could catch fire. I don't think many people remove the batteries from sex toys after use.

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    Hi, I'm scared.
    At a party I made out with a girl and also fingered her. And I knew that she's kinda of slutty and has
    different boyfriends all the time but I was a bit drunk and because of this I was less careful.
    What scares me is that after I had fingered her when I was on my way back home I used a medical
    disinfectant spray to clean my hands cause they smelled like pussy and when I rubbed the spray onto my hands it burned at a few places on various fingers at the fingernails!
    I often chew fingernails and then the skin which surrounds the fingernails gets little tears and obviously I had a few tears again. I mean I didn't have any bleeding spots but since the alcohol burned this shows that there were spots which weren't totally healed and like normal skin.

    Now I'm scared. If she has aids could I have gotten it this way? Could the virus have gotten into the body at those spots on my fingers?

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