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    toriexx

    Ok so i know i am not pregnant , since there is no special individual in my life , however the last time i got my period was the 10th of january!

    My periods have never been what one would consider as regular., but this is rather unusual , i can't say i am overly stressed, nothing more than the usual anyway! and i am not underweight!

    I am considering going to the Dr , but i think he will recommend going on the pill , which i would rather not if it were possible ... is there any other way to regulate my period without taking the pill ?

    Hope someone has some advice \:\)

    Torie x

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    toriexx

    I absolutely love birthdays , although i swear time goes so fast nowadays , like when i was younger i can remember wishing i would be 13 , and now im 18 .

    I guess i just look at it as 18 years of time i have spent , and many more to come .

    No particularly gutting ones really.

    Tor x

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    the cowsills - the rain the park & other things

    Not sure if that helps ?

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    toriexx

    I know that you have had bad experiences when showing emotion , however the lack of emotion is probably why people feel uncomfortable.

    I am not saying put your heart on your sleeve , however just a little emotion can be reassuring !!

    Tor x

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    toriexx

    Well didnt the majority of us beleive santa was real !!

    Tor xx

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    toriexx

    Hmm isn't there any other spots managing any of the football/curling teams etc etc? At least then , your still involved in the activity!!

    If not then , what about other non-athletic groups?

    Are you having any kind of physio on your knee ?

    Tor x

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    Hmm , the 'kinky' things you get upto , are not aimed to dis-respect or humiliate your wife, so i don't think you should think that by doing such bedroom activities you mean her any form of dis-respect. They are just things that yo find pleasurable!!

    The bedroom desires , are just there to make you both get that added 'high', and maybe , just maybe , your wife would also take pleasure from your kinky fantasies, and i have no doubt she has some of her own.

    "she's my wife and you don't do those kind of things to someone you love."
    Just because you have some very 'kinky/freak' bedroom desires doesnt make you love or respect her any less. Surely the more you love someone the more things you are able to do with him/her, even if they may seem a little odd!

    You said you love her, and surely this alone makes you able to be open with her about sexual likes dislikes and so on and so forth.

    However thats my opinion , i hope it helps!
    Tor x

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    Firstly , congratulations on your change of lifestyle , you should be really proud of yourself , its not easy !! Look at the acheivements you have made (i.e. losing weight , your job , stopping self harm etc etc ) this really should provide you with a huge confidence boost , you have a lot to be proud of , even if you do not know it.

    Hmm , i kind of get where you are coming from , i am pretty shy when i first get to know someone , and yet after , and i know them , i feel a lot more relaxed, is this the same for you ?

    It is really natural , to want to run away from a situation in which you feel uncomfortable!

    I would deffinately go to your friends , its not attention seeking at all , friends are there to offer up support when you need them , and i am sure you would do the same thing if they were to ask you for help! ( and there is always a warm ear on here , if you feel unable to talk to your friends)

    Don't keep beating yourself up, it doesnt help , and neither does harming yourself! It really isn't going to help and if anything this is problem making it worse !!

    Why not try and identify what exactly makes you nervous in social situations , its often easier to tackle the problem once you know what your up against!

    I really hope this helps !
    Tor x

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    If you arent showing any emotion , its likely this , more than your stature , that makes people feel uncomfortable.

    Every girl likes a teddybear !!

    Tor x

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    toriexx

    I know how you feel about moving around all the time , we move every 2-3 years .

    Is there any reason that you particularly hate winnipeg rather than selkirk ?

    You can still go back to selkirk and visit friends on the weekend they will not be lost , and you will make some new friends in winnipeg.

    It sounds like your mum is taking this as hard as you , so try and be there for her rather than just being angry !

    Why not go to school in winnipeg , and then use the car to visit friends at weekends , that way you don't need to pay for as much gas , and you still get to visit friends etc.

    Keep ya chin up , things might turn out ok ! and you could end up back with ya mum ? Just needs some patience .... if it all flops just think you only have to be there for 1 yr ... and then you could move out to go to college or etc !

    Tor
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