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    Ultim8visionary

    In pornos the "cum shot" is often referred to as the "money shot". Why? It's a big draw. Ironic that there are so many guys out there who are openly homophobic; yet, what they really pay to see when it comes to porn is another guy's dick spewing.

    As for why women don't swallow more in porn, and are more likely to get cum shot on them somewhere, that has to do more with visual impact than anything else. I love having a warm mouth tightly engulfing my cock when I cum. Her tongue stroking up and down the underside of my penis in a 'milking' fashion is phenomenal. However, if it were videotaped, you would probably not tell with certainty that I'd actually came in her mouth. Yet, if I pull out and shoot onto some fun target (her pussy, her ass, her breasts, or her face) then there's no question about what just happened. And even though it's often not true, bigger, more explosive cum shots are equated with more intense male orgasms. So, seeing a guy shoot a whole helluva lot of cum into a girl's mouth from a distance, or anywhere on her makes a huge visual impact. It's explosive!

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    It's not just pre-cum you have to worry about. Most of time, most guys will "ooze" a little actual cum during intercourse and before orgasm. You can witness this if you masterbate, and slow down and stop a bit just before you cum, and wait a bit, then start again. Do this a couple or a few times and you'll likely see some semen come out. For some guys it's a lot, for some it's very little. But realize a tiny, single drop of cum from a guy who is producing normal amounts of sperm will contain millions of those little guys.. and it only takes one determined swimmer. If you must do it without the pill or barrier methods, consider looking into "FAM" (Fertility Awareness Method). Google it, you should find some useful information.

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    It's my experience that when someone is sucking a dick in a car or any place where there's not going to be a good alternative as to where to aim the cum, they are at least to some degree expecting you to cum in their mouth. I say try holding her head down on your dick as you shoot -- until either you hear a big gulp or she bites the !?#@? out of you.. lol.. no seriously, some girls do really like to swallow, most seem to tolerate at least you cumming in their mouths (and spitting after), and only a few won't have anything to do with your cum. Since it really is a very wonderful part of the interaction (e.g., the "ending" of it), it's really nice when the ending is good.. so, finding girls who at least are tolerant of doing it "correctly" and "completely" is important. If she won't do it, there are guys out there (on these boards in fact) who simply cannot cum from oral sex and/or don't even care to have get their blowjobs.. perfect match for a girl like you're describing.

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    Bi here. Whether they are girls or guys, I'm attracted to people who are unique, interesting, different, physically appealling to me, people with whom there is a mutual interest or "connection". As for physical attributes, I like nice eyes & a gorgeous smile/sexy lips. A tight butt is nice on a male or female tho a little round is nice on either esp. females. Sexually, I like a guy who takes control.. a little aggressive but not a cocky jerk in or out of the bedroom. As long as it's not deformed, dick-size is not too much an issue (big ones are beautiful to look at but hard to work with sometimes), though I find big, full balls a huge turn-on. Ability to really "shoot" well (huge blasts of semen) is the pinnacle to me, well, that, and just being adventurous and open-minded.. seeking to try new things (in and out of the bedroom). Oh, and common interests!

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    Malcum,

    Often I go down on my wife before we have sex as a form of foreplay and to ensure she orgasms (during me going down on her and/or during sex since she'll be more lubed up, more turned on and just and more "ready"), but sometimes I've done it (eaten her out) right after we've had sex and I've cum inside her (which you shouldn't do unless you both know you are disease free and you are both practicing monogamy - not sleeping with anyone else - and of course only if she's using some type of reliable birth control such as the pill, etc., or you are both actively trying to become pregnant).

    I love my wife's normal taste, but I have to admit that it was just as good or better and mostly very erotic to taste the mixture of our juices. On the other hand, I wasn't down there specifically trying to lick my own juices out of her vagina... just getting a little as a side effect of being down there trying to pleasure her. But, it was still a turn-on. I liked it.

    As for snow balling (snowball/snowblow/etc) I've never done that but it sounds gross, yet since it's a taboo, and it's nothing I've not already tasted (her saliva, my cum), and since our bodily fluids turn me on anyway, I'd be very open to it. I think most people avoid it. For the girl, many girls will take cum in their mouths and of these many will swallow (some won't, oh well).. .but most seem to want to get the whole affair done and over with and not drag it out by holding it in their mouths long enough to give it back to their man. Also, a lot of guys are not secure enough in their own sexuality and manhood to do such a thing. So, you won't find much about this. The first reference I ever heard to this activity was as a quote from the movie "Clerks". (I've been meaning to see this one)

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    The "cherry" that's being referred to is really the girl's hymen, a small piece of flesh that nearly/essentially seals her vagina closed. Many things (other than sex) can cause a girl's hymen to open/tear, but since a girl's first intercourse ALWAYS would cause this (if it hadn't already been done), the term "popping her cherry" is associated with and considered equivalent to a girl's loss of vaginity. Technically, if the hymen has already been ruptured you aren't "popping" anything, but it's still a common figure of speech.

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    Facials are a huge turn-on for me. My ex let me do it once on purpose, and it was incredible. Wish I still had the pictures. I've given a little bit of an accidental facial to other girls a couple of times, which was hot, but not as much as when your partner is really into it and takes the whole load on her face. Even better when she licks her lips, etc.

    I've shot on my own face too, on accident a couple of times (big, unexpected blast!) and a few times on purpose. It feels good, it's very erotic, but it stings and makes your eyes red and sore for a long time if it gets in your eyes. So, guys, if you have a girl open-minded enough to let you give her a facial... try not to get it in her eyes (if you want a "shot" at her ever letting you do it again).

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    Hello,

    I have never been with a woman with what I would consider "large" labia. All are different, have their own "personality", but really they're not THAT different. But from what I've found so far, the bigger the labia (esp the "inner" lips being longer and more "flap-like") the sexier to me (again, all a matter of preference!).

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    My wife and I both shave down there (I tried it once, and she now prefers that I keep myself smooth down there). Actually, I wax down there more frequently than shave. Yes, it's painful (not as bad as you'd think, but yeh), but much less so than having sex with a tiny open-cut that can sometimes happen after shaving (can you say "salt in an open wound -- yeeeouch!). Also, much fewer ingrown hairs (yuck), and longer time between depilation than with shaving. But the biggest plus IMHO - totally smooth. It's cleaner (for your partner), and it is very sexy. A woman's pussy that is hairless is easier to go down on (fewer obstacles), and even hotter to look at than normal (you can see everything) - and for guys it makes things look even bigger than otherwise, not to mention your balls make a terrific "slapping" noise against your girl's ass when you are having sex. Also, things are tremendously more sensitive when all the skin is exposed during sex rather than so much of it being covered/padded by hair.

    Hair tends to trap sweat and tiny amounts of residual urine. For men, it traps sweat, and residual semen.

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