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    ywc

    I know where both of you are coming from. I suppose part of it was the remaining "ego worry" which still hadn't simmered off after discovering about gynecomastia, and the other part was just some curiosity of knowing what would be in a woman's mind.Everytime we learn new things, our attitude may change as well, if we choose to do so. Now that you have presented my question in a different light, I think it shouldn't be a problem for me to live with my puffy nipples. Its just the mindset. Thanks.

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    ywc

    After searching the forum, I only just found out that as a male you can have big puffy nipples too, known as gynecomastia.I am male, 35 and still single without a gf. After discovering that I am not alone in this world of gynecomastia, I feel less pressure about my puffy nipples. But there is still a question that is in my mind.I hope that it doesn't offend anyone to ask. Because I am still single, I often pondered over what my future gf would think or say when she saw my nipples.For those males who have gynecomastia and already have a partner, I would appreciate it if you could give me some feedback on what your partner said or how she reacted when she saw your nipples the first time so that I would know what to expect in the future. Thanks

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    ywc

    Based on the diagrams and images explained on Wikipedia, it looks like it may be the prostate. But in reality, I get the impression that the pain felt is not so far deep as drawn in the diagram.

    Its mentioned there that the prostate can contract cancer as well. What are the symptoms of prostate cancer? I hope I haven't got it. I had my pain for over a year now.

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    ywc

    What is the internal organ somewhere between your penis and bellybutton that feels the erotic sensation when you get the orgasm? I think controlling my orgasm for too many years too often has given me some problems.As some of you say, sometimes it feels like its the best thing ever. I've been controlling my orgasm in a way so that it "breaks out" gradually and not all in one quick flash so that I can enjoy the feeling longer. The internal organ I mentioned is where you feel and enjoy the erotic sensation.But unfortunately now, I'm not sure if making it gradually come out that way is actually putting stress and perhaps injury on the organ because now when I masturbate too often, the organ feels slight discomfort before orgasm and slight to mediocre pain after orgasm.So what I would like to find out is what this organ is, what I may have done to it according to how I might have treated it and what ways there are to completely cure it. Can anyone explain. Thanks in advance.

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    ywc

    So I presume this is one thing like smoking that's difficult to stop? The other main reason I also want to do so is because I have another worry. Since the pain causes me to need to have regular rest breaks, this worries me for the future.I am now still single and I don't know what couples do in the early years of their marriage. I may not see my parents having sex every night now, but I also don't know if my future wife(if I ever get one) initially has some eagerness to have sex for a few days and I can't take the load?That is what's also on my mind. So how do I stop this desire-habit emotion so that my sexual organs may get enough time to rest and heal completely?

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    ywc

    When I was younger, I did do it roughly nearer the climax several times. I've stopped that for a long time now, especially since the pain started. I did this then to try and stimulate myself more. But I don't get seizures from masturbation.

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    ywc

    Originally Posted By: qzack96

    I had a similar problem where my PB muscle gave me an excruciating pain every time I climaxed. I was 15 then, and I was too ashamed to tell the doc. Luckily for me, it went away after I stopped masturbating for about 3 weeks(I don't know how I did it either!). I would suggest you follow the same advice for that same amount of time. If it doesn't help, go see the doc !

    Mine sounds a little like yours in the part where the pain starts when I climax. I too was initially ashamed to tell the doctor (in fact both my parents are doctors), until one visit last year when I revealed everything.

    Here's the story. I am an epileptic but with partial seizures, not full blown ones. I usually have mild fits but had two quite bad ones which ended me in hospital twice last year. My specialist was with me and I had to explain things. That was when I revealed I masturbated. I did tell that I got the pains but he didn't take note of it.

    One strange thing is each time I got one of those bad seizures, it was as if part of my "memory" was erased because both times, I lost my craving for sex, pornorgraphy, and the masturbation which I am trying to give up. It was curiousity that pulled me back in. The second time I had the seizure, I managed to go without masturbation craving for up to four months and my internal organ(s) healed and could take the "stress"/load quite well until now.

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    ywc

    I'm a guy and now when I masturbate too often(eg. everyday with 1 time each day), the organs somewhere between the bellybutton and penis and a little towards the right hurt. Also, my right testicle may sometimes hurt a little at the same time.When that happens, I usually have to take a 2-3 day break at least. I have a feeling that the organ there(which is somehow related to sexual activity) has been overworked, and I want to stop masturbating.I started masturbating since I was a kid and didn't stop the habit until the pain started a year ago as a young adult. I still have trouble controlling my masturbating desire like smoking but I wish to stop it.Does anyone have any sincere suggestions to help me solve my problem so that I can give my sexual organs some time to rest and heal themselves?

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