K- I went out w/ a girl for 5 months, then school ended adn she broke up with me because last time she kept a relationship over the summer she got her heart broken (ironically the guy is now one fo my best friends) Anyway, we were going to get back together after school started, but I asked her last night and she sed that she thought it was best we were friends for now, but maybe later. You think she is jsut leading me on, n using me as a backup or does she actually plan on getting back together? We talk every other weekend on AIM, and I talk to ehr almost every day at school... Anotehr possibility is she's jsut shy and won't come out adn say no. Any suggestions with a littel more tact than jsut coming out and saying "Do you ever plan on getting back together?"
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This Sucks....
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If she won't commit, then she can't expect you to. It doesn't seem like there's much future in the relationship. She's certainly not "in love" with you. :frowning:
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Unfortunately, I think Ineligible is probably right on this one. If you have a friendship with her then keep it but if you can, it's probably best to move on relationship-wise.
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**if she doesn't want to commmit, then she's not a good relationship type,... to be honest with you :smile: **