Girls complicated sexuality

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i have a BIG question! girls ive noticed that your sexuality is just as complicated as your emotions,i mean guys want sex ALL the time,no questions,a guy either thinks your hot or not,no questions, but i found that girls have to be in this certain mood to have sex,and girls are more sexualy attracted to a guys characteristic than his body, and it seems like girls dont care wether they have sex or not,but guys want it all the time,so please,girls,do me a big favor and explain how the female sexuality works! do girls ever look at guys and picture him naked? or look at a guy and wish you were having sex with him? do you ever get wet dreams? or masturbate and it drives you crazy that its not real sex? or get horny and wish that you were having wild sex with your boyfriend or husband all the time,that you cant get enough? please i would really appreciate some help here? thank you

do girls ever look at guys and picture him naked?or look at a guy and wish you were having sex with him? do you ever get wet dreams? or masturbate and it drives you crazy that its not real sex? or get horny and wish that you were having wild sex with your boyfriend or husband all the time,that you cant get enough?>>>>>> YES YES YES YES YES..................ok anyone got a smoke LMAO

Men are into the visual. Girls are into the emotions. Yes we do have those same thoughts, fantasies etc. I would feel safe to say it comes about more as you get older. I think about sex all the time. I think about my man all the time. I really think it depends on the age of the girl and how comfortable she is with her sexuality.For centuries, women have been trained to be the sex object for her man. In fact, my mother's generation hated sex (maybe not all of them) and she even told me she would have sex with my father just to make him happy. She didn't care about her own needs. In fact I wonder if she even had any. I also think that men have had the same mentality for years. Sex was for them, not for their woman. Woman are just becoming comfortable with their sexuality. Society is finally allowing it.It's that lousy double standard. A man can go out and get a piece of ass and his friends will praise him. A woman wants to go out and get laid and she's given a nasty label. I think this may be part of the reason why women are more reserved sexually. Several years ago I decided I would no longer hold back when I wanted to get laid, and so I would just come right out and ask a guy if he wanted to get laid. Once I became comfortable with my sexuality, my sex drive heightened dramatically. Haven't had any complaints so far.

"For centuries, women have been trained to be the sex object for her man."Damn Straight! J/K

Well I can't speak for all girls, but as for me, yes, i did used to fantasize about other guys and stuff, but now that i've found the love my life, all i can think about is him, and being with him, and wishing he was here right now to kiss and cuddle and have sex. For me, the personality is a really huge issue, no matter how ugly or hot a guy may be, it all comes down to how his personality and behaviour is. I would agree that women are more complex when it comes to emotions, but men can be too, and they don't want to have sex all the time (though they can be easily aroused :wink: ). For me, to want to have sex, the mood has to be right, sometimes I love to just bang like there's no tmrw, but what i really enjoy is that really romantic, passionate, slow sex - treat it like a gift and a sacred thing, and not like something object to use and take for granted. I looove sappy romantic movies and it's so awesome when I make love to my bf, and it reminds me of Pretty Woman, because I know what it looks like: romance and passion....wow I really went overboard here :blush: ...

A woman's sexuality is not that hard to understand, we like to be treated delicately and feeeellll the love and the passion both emotionaly and physically. I'm all hung up on feeling, hehe.

Prx, sounds like you've got a winner here!!

yes, we are madly in love. the crazy bangs that we sometimes have are great, but other times even i want those really sexy-romantic-passionate love sessions. Like the other day, we were watching "A lot like love" and we ended up having sex when they did during the movie, and we just layed there cuddling with me on top and my penis just sitting there, with the tip/head just on the inside of her, and about to fully go in, no moving just laying there, very romantic. then it turned into well very passionate sex...

Oh, to be young again.