In reply to: The basic rule is that unless you feel that you have to go, the rectum should be empty. Well, mine definitely isn't most times. I don't know what the deal is. Maybe I don't have a self cleaning rectum like everyone else.
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Fingering your own ass?
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yep, just had the new "self cleaning" rectum installed. What a great household time saver. -
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i never fingered, never got it up far enough...but i DID grap one of my sisters razors and stuck the not-sharp end up there is feels weird i got scared it would get stuck so i pulled it out...
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Don't worry, you're not alone. I probably don't a diet rich enough in fibers because every once in a while I'll have feces hanging at the entrance of my rectum, not going back up but not pushing out either, which is really annoying.
Personally, I first wash my anus, then slip a finger inside. If I feel a turd inside (and it happens every once in a while), I simply go on the toilet and push as much out as possible. After that, I wash my anus and finger again, then push it back inside, and start playing with myself. Sure, my rectum is probably a bit dirty/slimy, but my finger never goes anywhere else until I come anyway, so it doesn't bother me if it's not squeaky clean. At the worst, I'll pull it out covered in slightly brown lube, so I wash it with plenty of soap in hot water (twice) until it no longer smells, and that's it.
Quite frankly, if you're not prepared for at least a bit of shit during anal activities, maybe you just shouldn't be doing any. Or else, use condoms or gloves. But shit in any capacity is pretty much inevitable. I remember reading on a serious anal sex site, that once you push inside, there's not way to know what you'll encounter; it might be clean and empty, or it might be full and dirty. The only way to know is to try :wink:
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Thanks ShyGuy666 - glad I'm not the only one that doesn't have a perfectly clean rectum all the time In reply to: If I feel a turd inside (and it happens every once in a while), I simply go on the toilet and push as much out as possible. Just a piece of advice for you - you shouldn't push hard like that - that's how you get hemmoroids, and those are not fun. Bowel movements should always be relaxed - never push. You're better off using an enema to clean up there instead of forcing residual poop out. In reply to:Quite frankly, if you're not prepared for at least a bit of shit during anal activities, maybe you just shouldn't be doing any. Yeah, that's pretty much why I stopped doing anal masturbation. The mess isn't worth the pleasure to me.
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okays o this may sound really dumb to some people but...(no un intended) i bought the durex tingling snesation lube and i lube up the handel of my mach 3 turboa nd turn it on to vibrate and the length is just percet..like 5 or so inches maybe 6 but it is a little thin but beucase ts metal and with the lube it feels so good.! i wanan try one of thoes ribbed womens razor handel to see what thats like!
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I meant that I would push out as much as possible in terms of quantity, not in terms how hard I pushed. I used to be constipated half the time as a child, so I now take good care of my anus after having it on fire and bleeding for so long. And yeah, once you start experimenting with anal, bowel movements feel a lot better
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im sorry but i just cant see it happening with me i just cant see how it could give you more pleasure.
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A good way to measure if you'll like it is if you stroke and at the same time feel and press around the area between your balls and anal. That can be very pleasurable during masturbation depending on how sensitive you are there. If you do like that you will almost certainly love fingering yourself...
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It's usually not the penatration that guys like, it's the rubbing of the prostate glad that heightens an orgasm. Though there are guys who enjoy the penatration as well.
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Don't know about the penetration, it can feel odd, it can good, but stumulation of that area is certainly pleasurable for many males. That's due to all the nerve endings the anus and rectum have, along with the prostate who perhaps have the highest amount. But thats different from person to person. Some enjoy the anus and rectum more.. Some prefer the prostate. What the hell.
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Forti-an-twa is right, it varies from person to person. I myself am more into the anus and rectum than the prostate. I guess it's because prostate stimulation gets more publicity or something. Sex in society tends to go through trends like that, like when anal sex became in and everybody started doing it.
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I have to say that I have fingered my self many times and the feel of the pressure is a real turn on!!! As my screen name suggests I am a part time t-girl though I am mostly hetro I do have a bi courous part to me but I am only attracted to other t-girls perhaps someday I will get the nerve to let one do some ass play to me
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HELP:In the shower I lubed up with conditioner, and starting sticking my finger up dere, and it was like half way thru and I dunno how much fartherBecause Its like, feels weird - but im sure it will be better when I hit the prostate...Any sugs?
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ive tried it but i cant find much pleasure just pain.how do you do it so it feels good?
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Anal Sex Lesson #1: If it's painful, you're not doing it right!And just for fun, here's a repost of something I wrote a while ago:I don't know how much you know about anal stimulation, but here's how I do it. I usually start by cleaning my anus with a hot soapy towel; the heat helps me to relax my anus and I usually get pretty hot just by stroking/rubbing my anus like that. After a few minutes like that, I usually have a rock hard erection, which is a good sign that my body is enjoying the feelingsAfter that, I like to lie on my back and to spread my legs. I always use a bit of KY on a finger to start things. I don't know how much you know about anal sex but you should know that it's all about patience, relaxing and lube! Never by afraid to use as much lube as necessary, always be patient and go at your body's rythm and it's imperative that you relax as much as possible.I start off with a single finger. I push it in very slowly, getting used to the feeling of being penetrated. Once I'm in about an inch, I get the feeling that a bowel movement is coming, which is perfectly normal. That's because your touching nerves that are usually activated when feces are about to come out, only this time it's going the other way. In time, you get used to the feeling and might find it very exciting. The trick is to go slowly, always breath well and relax every few second until your ass gets used to having something inside that's moving. After about 15 minutes, I'm usually comfortable enough to go further.Sometimes I like to finger myself, first starting at a steady pace and gradually getting faster and faster while also stimulating my penis. That usually gives me an incredible sensation in my anus, like it's almost on fire from being stimulated, becoming almost painful which usually means I have to stop for a few seconds before starting again. Orgasms obtained this way are usually pretty strong.When I have lots of time, I try to finger myself with two or even three fingers. Of course, as always, patience, lube and relaxing are the key. I'll admit that getting in that second, or worse, third finger, is sometimes impossible even with relaxation. When my anus is just too tight, I usually start contracting my muscles as if I was expulsing feces (of course, try and make sure there are no feces coming for that). When you do that, your anus becomes a lot more relaxed (more so than you would achieve consciously) and pushing those extra fingers become a lot easier. Remember, if you feel any pain, you should stop, because you're not doing it right. I can't tell you the incredible feeling of having three fingers in your ass when having an orgasm. It's feel a lot stronger than normal if only because your anus is pulsating strongly around a large mass (your fingers).On rare occasions will I actually try to stimulate my prostate, because I don't find it very rewarding personally. I assume you already know how to find it (it's usually a small lump in your rectum on the side of the penis). I usually rub it slowly at first and increasingly harder while stimulating my penis. I'll admit that at first, pressing hard on the inside of your rectum feels weird because you don't really feel the pressure as such, and you might be afraid of hurting something. Just go at your rythm and listen to how your body reacts. When I get close to a climax, I can feel the prostate suddenly harden under my finger which feels very nice and makes the orgasm stronger.In any case, when I have the time/place/equipment (lube), I try to include some anal stimulation while masturbating, because once you've tasted it, penis stimulation alone feels kinda dull and plain. Have fun!
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finally got an orgasm by rubbing the prostate,but it felt the same as a regular one to me. Any suggestions?
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I LOVE it. Here's a little lesson I typed up a while back:Disclaimer: I am NOT a doctor and I do NOT play one on TV. This is the way I learned how to discover anal play. As usual care needs to be practiced. GO VERY SLOWLY. First start off with a TRIMMED index finger. You may even want to put on a latex glove first to help make it even smoother. Use KY or the drug store brand of KY and lube the finger well. Place it VERY GENTLY near the anus and lightly circle the hole with the finger. DON'T INSERT YET. Just circle it for a few minutes. After a few minutes without insert, just put the finger over the anus and gently press a bit without entering. Just apply a bit of pressure. Do this over and over a few times and after a few minutes SLOWLY begin to insert JUST THE FINGER TIP in about a quarter of an inch then take it out. Do this a few times then go a LITTLE further in. Repeat this until you have you whole finger in. DO NOT FORCE IT, IF HE OR SHE OR YOU SAYS STOP, STOP! Within a week or so of trying this the person should be fairly used to the finger and inserting and pumping it in and out should become easy. Also try moving the finger around while inserted, back & forth,etc. Orgasms ARE VERY VERY INTENSE when you leave your finger or butt plug or dildo in. Soon you will want to try something slightly bigger than your finger. Try your middle finger or graduate to a SMALL butt plug. Same rules apply to the new toy as did with the finger. Start off using the finger as usual then after getting loose begin with the plug.Plugs have flared bottoms to prevent them from going all the way in. If you graduate to dildos later get ones with a flared base or ones that have the balls at the bottom. This prevents them from slipping all the way in. You don't need a trip to the ER to retrieve it, that would SUCK!After a while you will become very used to anal play and you won't need much time to prep for your session. You'll loosen up very quickly after you learn how to relax your anal muscles. It takes me less than 5 minutes to go from start to riding a 10 inch silicon dildo like a bucking bronco! GITTYUP LITTLE DOGGIE! The key to learning anal play/sex is to TAKE YOUR TIME.
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NO I HAVE NEVER DONE IT, I DON'T KNOW MAYBE BEC IT MAKES YOU KIND OF GAY