Strippers need love too!

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Sooo yes, I was thinking about hooking up with this girl who's a stripper. How'd we meet? A lapdance. So it does sound kinda stupid, but I wanted to get some input on whether this would be a good or bad idea.

bad idea you kno shes a dirty girl all ready so theres always a chance for STD's and i don't know if you are just looking to hook up or a relationship but would you want your gf being stared at by a bunch of perverted men all day.

In reply to: you want your gf being stared at by a bunch of perverted men all day shrugs I don't care. If I did, then I wouldn't even consider it. But you're right about the STD thing. Then again, a lot of girls only do it temporarily because they need money. Hell, when I do the math, (making over $1000 a day) makes me want to be a stripper. But, I'm sure male strippers don't do as well as the ladies do.

$1000 bucks a day? In Georgia? Amazing.I'm not sure that the STD possibility is much worse than with any random girl you meet. I'd rather be with a selective, monogamous stripper than a promiscuous lawyer.Did you spend a lot of money? I'd think that if you hadn't, and she still gave you her phone number, that she might actually like you. You can go out on a date and talk...no need to jump into bed.

I just don't think you should get your hopes up that it's gonna go anywhere, but why not hook up? I dunno about STDs...she's a stripper, not a prostitute right?

Whuuuh? Being a stripper doesn't exactly mean she has a higher chance of having STDs than any other girl. She's a stripper, not a prostitute. A lot of strippers do just that, strip and nothing else.My former roommate's sister is stripper and you wouldn't even know if she didn't tell you. The only dirty thing about her was not doing the dishes when she crashed here for a while.I'm not sure if the threadstarter should get in over his head though. I'm certain she has tons of guys promising her the moon every day.

Oh and, yes, strippers do need love too!

they need love... as does everyone... just be careful about your sex life.

I think the idea of someone i was going out with showing off his body while women drooled all over him, well i wouldnt' like it at all, i know i couldn't handle it and for me it would be the biggest reason for not having a relationship with a stripper etc.

Actually, the club I go to is in Florida, but she lives in the same town as I do. haha. Usually, I would think she was lying about where she lived, but she told me first and that was my first time going to that particular club. They make over a grand a day, but they have to give up so much of it to the people running the place. And no, I actually didn't spend much money at all.

In reply to: I'm sure male strippers don't do as well as the ladies do I work as a male stripper at a gay club occasionally and usually I get between £1000 and £2000 a night shoved down the front of my g-string and tights (6 separate routines over 6 hours). On one night, where there was a special do on, I picked up almost £7000! However, because I choose to work for the venue rather than being an independant like some of the guys there, I have to surrender 50% of my take to cover insurance, costumes, dressing-room maintenance and a whole ton of other things and all 3 of the guys who work for the venue have to pool and split our take. The independants get to keep their whole stake but from that they have to pay stage hire, dressing-room hire, buy their own costumes etc.Generally I walk out with between £300 and £700 a night although there were occasions when I first started when it was as little as £50.

I say go for it. If you think it could work out between you two then go and try to give it a shot. Everyone is right, just because she strips doesnt mean she's dirty. She could be doing it for a million different reasons. Good thing is at least you know she wont be coming to you for money . Go for it, have fun, and tell us the outcome.

Ooops, stupid me. I should have included in that post that I know lots of male and female strippers and (as far as I know) they're all just regular, clean-living people who don't sleep around without regard to their sexual health.If you really like this girl, it's definitely worth exploring the possibility of a relationship.

A lot of strippers are actually very street smart and down to earth. Anyone who takes the time to talk to them will most likely change their opinion.

So, did you guys go out?

naw, I went again last night and she wasn't working. But I did get to meet some more really cool women.

You didn't get her number?!? No sale, then.

haha. Well, in which case it's her loss.

dude you should write her name on your cock before you go meet her. Then when you see her whip out the monster and show her. I think I'm gonna do that for my gf one of these days just to see her reaction.

First off I do hope that you know that the stripper's job is to make you feel like they "want you", so that you give up the cash either by high tips or just constantly getting lapdances from just that particular stripper. It's an act and so many people have been sucked into the trance just as I fear you have. Just because they talk to you before or after the lapdance or off to the side in the main area does not mean that she actually is into you. The whole thing is a work. It's funny to see a guy as intelligent as you falling under this spell. I suggest not spending a lot of money on a stripper. I'm not saying that you shouldn't go, because most of us males go to a strip club every once in awhile. I would concentrate on a non-stripper personally, because strippers are essentially prostitutes that don't go all the way, well sometimes they do hook up with someone from a club, but its just that a hook up. It's your life and your hard earned money (I assume) so do as you please, I would just hate for you to get in too deep in a game that will ultimately beat you. Good Luck and Good Times Friend