CoMmUnAl ShOwErS W/ OlDeR Men

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okay so yeah, i'm new to this afriad to ask thing... well not really i've been an avid reader of the boards for some time now but i just made a username and this will eb my 1st post...I guess its a little late in the season now but i was wondering. This past summer me and my BFF karen used to go to the beach almost once a week and on 2 occasions i decided to shower before i went home that day. The showers at the bach are inside and have deviders between them but no doors or curtains the 1st time i went i stayed in my trunks beaucse being a gay man i get shy about nudity sometimes. But the second time i went in there were mainly older men and a few guys in like their 20's and tthey were all nude and i didn't wnat to stick out ( no pun inteded) so i took off my swim suit. i actually felt really comfortable and was sportin a "semi" which i didn't mind but about half way though my shower it just seamed to "pop up" i was like eugh screw it and continuded with my shower and walked back to the bench to get dressed and didn't really care that it was visible. afterwords i kinda fell awkard though cuz i was wodering if it would seam rude or anything that i was walking around liek that no one else was but even just the fact of being ankjed with guys gets me tounred on so there wants much i could do. I was wondering if you giuys think it was wrong of me to not like cover it up and just get dressed. or if it was okay... i'll sue your advice for future situations..~Aaron~

Honestly I wouldn't give it a second thought. It's kind of a natural thing. I have been in situation where I seen someone in a locker room or showers that had a hardon. I dunno doesn't really bother me, as I said it's pretty natural. And also, no ones going to say anything because that's admitting they were looking lol.Serious bud, don't worry about it. You're fine

Aaron, Here is my opinion.I am an older guy. Growing up most showers at pools, the beach, camp, etc were communal (no curtains, no stalls, not doors). Guys get hardons. All guys know this, many things, including just getting naked in a shower can send it up, for all of us. I don't think most guys care one way or the other. Except maybe those that it never happens too. If you with buddies, then they will probably tease you. However, the next time you get to tease them. I don't think it is any big deal. I wouldn't worry about it and who knows, maybe you made some other guys day by them being able to get a look at you. As has been said other places. Be proud of what your mama gave you, it's yours and no body elses (well, unless you choose to share).Definitly not something you want to appologize to anyone about. My guess is probably no body really noticed much.

I play alot of sports so I'm pretty used to being nude around guys my age. Still it was weird this summer using a campground shower where there were males from probably about 8 to maybe 50, but I quickly realized no one was paying any attention me. I think some of the boys were traumatized by seeing Dad naked for the first time.

I think some of the boys were traumatized by seeing Dad naked for the first time.Wow. I'm always surprised at how sheltered some people are.

Hi Aaron, and welcome to A2A posting!I don't think it's rude to be nude in the showers, even with a hard-on; however, some guys might take walking around erect as a general invitation, so you may want to be careful.

I go to the gym and work our and relax after playing racquetball and I really enjoy sitting in the Jacuzzi and sauna in the men’s locker room. All of the guys are usually nude. Its fun to see how in shape they are compared to me and it gives me something to work towards…. I like the naked male body. When a guy is in good shape, his body is usually quite powerful looking... I don’t mean this is a sexual way, some guys just look good all buff and built.

In reply to: Wow. I'm always surprised at how sheltered some people are. In the UK in 1998, during the world cup, a series of posters were shown around the UK which featured a famous footballer on one side and Michelangelo's 'David' on the other side. If you don't know, David is a famous nude statue.I was standing at the bus stop one morning and one of these posters was up on the display in front of me. A middle-aged man and a boy a couple of years younger than me (he was about 14-15 I guess) came to stand at the stop. The man spotted the boy looking at the statue of David, placed his hand over the boy's eyes and said something like "Richard...we DON'T need to look at things like THAT!"

don't worry i've been in Change rooms and communal showers and have seen some pretty "interseting" things so if i was to see someone walking around with a Hardon i would srugg it off(i have see alot like masterbation in the shower room)

jerking off in public showers? And this guy is just embarrassed by an erection. Who would jerk off in a public shower like that?

it was an older man that was doing it o well not like ne one here has not Jacked off in public befor or with ur window open!

hey dude ive gone to many camps and gyms and at gyms you can see anything hardons, masrtbation, shavin your ass & pubic ares, gay sex, 3-5 sums, so yes anything can happen and people do it lol.

What ever happened to modesty?