Sorry, I didn't mean it as an insult.
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I don't masturbate
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i use the right techniques, i jus can't seem to get into it. are there people born with this problem lol, i think if i was with a guy and we were having sex, i might be able to get off, maybe i jus need time. Its just i feel out of the loop when all of my friends say they've had one, (they're probably lying)....or they afraid to admit they haven't had one
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You said (1 1/2 years ago):In reply to:whenever i masturbate its like it takes me only about a min. to a 2 min. to cum and i find that kinda weird myself. Is that normal? and is there anyway to make it last longer?So you used to be able to reach orgasm? When did you start on antidepressants?
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its not really an orgasm, its like, oh im done, lol....it doesnt feel good, its jus an ending i guess....i havent done that in about a year....and i started taking anti-depressants 2 years ago when i was 15
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The type of antidepressant you are taking doesn't usually have that effect, but it can. It's really worth discussing it with your doctor. He or she has heard it all before, and won't even raise an eyebrow. (Of course, depression itself can have a similar effect.)
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and its not jus that it doesnt feel good, a part of it is that im jus not interested, not in the mood,...and i hate it coz im a perv, but i dont want to masturbate, i'd have sex tho in a heart beat lol, jus not masturbate
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If your sex drive is there, but you're just not interested in masturbating, I don't know what to tell you. That would certainly explain why you can't give yourself an orgasm. I don't know whether that is a side effect of depression, the antidepressant, or neither. I would think that if it were either, you might not be interested in sex at all. But people are affected differently.
That was a long way of saying "dunno".
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OldFolks mentioned Wellbutrin, and it's also mentioned in this Salon.com article (from 2000), where it's claimed that Wellbutrin may actually have sexually-enhancing side effects. You might want to ask your doctor to let you give it a shot.
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OldFolks mentioned Wellbutrin, and it's also mentioned in this Salon.com article (from 2000), where it's claimed that Wellbutrin may actually have sexually-enhancing side effects. You might want to ask your doctor to let you give it a shot.
Steve is quite right. When I was on Wellbutrin by itself, I was a randy little monkey...lol As a matter of fact, after I was on it about a week and the first weekend rolled around my wife and I had sex six times that day. Maybe not that big a deal for some of you but each time was in public at work, the mall, the park, the mall parking lot, a newly built open house. I was still wanting more but she had enough and didn't want anymore. Now how much of that was the medication, I'm not saying, and after you become adjusted to it your sex drive doesn't remain that strong, but it definitely does add to your sex drive.
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well i wouldn't want to take it just for the sex drive, i have a sex drive, a very strong one infact, just no interest in masturbating, maybe mutual masturbation because thats hot, but i think the problem i have is nothing to masturbate too, the thought of a guy maybe but my imagination wanders and doesnt stay on track lol, also i have no porn....so i need to get some lol, maybe that would work