"you're sexuality is upto you, you make it what you want really." I think people are understanding me the wrong way i didn't mean it in the terms of, "oh look I want to be hetrosexual...Oh no now I'm homosexual, wait maybe im Bisexual"I meant that it can change with the way you are raised, the way your views are set while you grow up. Social accpetance, reglious views etc... I do agree that you grow into your sexuality and that it can change as you go through puberty. Hope I got it right this time
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Sexuality change?
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Your surroundings and upbringing can help suppress your feelings, but your true feelings will eventually creep back up.If what you said were true, there is no way I would also be attracted to guys.
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yeah, I don't think I know how to put into words what I wanted to say, properly. sorry guys/gals!
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Don't worry about labels, ever. But since this society does seem to like its labels just put off thought about them until you absolutely have to make the label to stick on your forhead saying what you are. Right now your to young to even think about putting the gay label, or the straight label, or the bi label, or lesbian trapped in mans body label on yourself. At your age commitment is generally about months not years let alone lifetimes. If you like this girl go out with her enjoy it to the most while it lasts. After that if you meet a guy you like go out with him and enjoy it while it lasts. You'll come to a better understanding of the sex, person, whatever that you what to make a long commitment to later when your older. Right know just enjoy. -- But be safe in your enjoyment.
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Thanks you guys. I've been feeling strange today. It's as though my talking about this with you guys has made my heterosexual side go into overdrive. I've been thinking about a wife and children, and getting to have a wedding. I just want it to happen so bad, maybe my body is adapting for me.
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Hey, I just turned 14 a while ago. But it was a few months ago when I started going to high school that I really went crazy thinking about girls 24/7. I've always liked girls but now I'm going crazy hitting on them and flirting with them. By the way you sound you probably are just Bi so hang in there.
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Hopefully by the time you are ready to marry, gay marriage and adoption will be legal, so it's no worry either way I suggest you just settle down and not to try to convince yourself of who you are. Thinking those things isn't going to make you straight if biologically you aren't straight. Just enjoy life for now, and let your feelings show themself to you, instead of trying to dig deep looking for them If you look at a lot of the people who "convince" themsleves they aren't something they are, generally you can see they are unhappy. I suppose a good example would be the "born again" Christian camps where homosexuals go to "purge themself" of their homosexual feelings (though, I admit this is a bit more on the extreme side). Especially, take a look at the leaders. They're generally hateful, unhappy people.
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I think you're too young to define your sexual orientation right now. And I believe you're a little bit confused (as almost every boy in your age).A young boy can be "attracted" by other men. But this happens, not because you want to have sexual relationships with him. When you are about 14-16, you struggle to develop your own personality by copying others. So, a handsome man can be just an idol for you, that you'd like more to look like him than having sex with him. Generally, at this age you want to look like a man but you are still not a man, you are a boy.I'd suggest you to answer yourself the question you mentioned above after 2-3 years. Then, you 'll start to develop your own unique personality and you'll realize what you truly are.
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Wow. The simplest answer yet. I thank you a thousand times and more!
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This may sound sick and twited but i am not gay and i am turned on by guys, then again i have a girlfriend and im straight 14-
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maybe your bi?