Weird?

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Have him trim you up if you are not already, this will get him closer and when he sees you getting wet etc... when I trim my g/f it gets her excited. Maybe he just doesn't plain like it. We all do things we don't like, I do feel sorry for you though he doesn't know what he is missing. Ask him if he can feel your pulse with his tounge touching your clit. If he says no, masturbate in front of him and then have him do the same thing just before your orgasm.

it's annoying becuse we've been going out for 10 months and he still hasn't given me an orgasm.

then he's the worst boyfriend on the planet... dump him.

or

be patient with him. think about it... if your being asked to do something you don't like would you rather the person asking be patient and understanding or manipulative and demanding?

ask him these questions:

do you like to be intimate with me?
do you like it when we get really into it?
are you comfortable with us being that close?
are you comfortable being that close with me specifically?
are you ok with going down on me? If not thats ok.
are you ok fingering me?
is there anything i should be doing differently for you or to help you be more comfortable?

start there.

Before I started going out with my bf, I said i would never give head, nor have him eat me out. I thought it was the nastiest thing. The problem was that neither of us tried it...but one day, for the sake of my lover, i said fine, i'll do it cuz i'll never know if i try. So we gave each other oral, and both loved everything!

The above advice is dandy...try to coax him a bit, let him know that he will never know until he tires (and doing it while he's drunk doesnt count), after all, you did take that "chance" and gave him oral.

You give him orgasms right?Well, you need to talk about it somehow. That has to be annoying not ever getting off with your partner. Does he ever finger you or anything? You need to teach him what you like.I don't know if I could handle being in a relationship and not being able to climax at all with my partner.

Well, I don't like doing it either..I will on occassion, but usually I don't. Cuz its gross to kiss your girl after that, however I don't mind at all after she does it to me..

Why is it gross? A vagina (one that's taked care of) is a multitude times cleaner than the human mouth.

wait, so shes has to do it for you or you wont for her? Selfish. Jerk. Prick. All words that come to mind... I dont like giving men oral, but i do it cause they like it.

how was your response when you were getting eaten out? because if you werent doing anything to make him think that it felt good, he might have been discouraged from not pleasing you, and he's afraid that he'll fail again if he tries again

yea.. it's been about 17 months now and still no orgasm. i've given up i think. he eats me out now thankfully, however, still no orgasm. :frowning: