Could you help me?

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Well you see theres this girl I really like. Shes not like other girls.Ummm how do I say this... we're becoming good friends. We have alot of things in common... I really don't know how to put this.What should I do next?

Well, you may have to put it a bit better than that. What do you want, to go out with her? To become best friends? To sniff her underwear?

Go out.

The thing to do next, is ask her out. Words of advice: ask her face, don't take her to a movie, don't get nervous.You're over half way there since you've become friends with her.

Does that mean you'd never dream of sniffing her underwear? What about having them crumpled up in a ball next to your bed?I'd let her know exactly what your lettin us know. Ready...Tell her you think that the two of you are becoming really good friends, and you would like to take her out. tell her that you love being with her, that she is not like the other's to you. Let her know that you would feel honored if she would be your date for a night. Establish personal contact, too. if you haven't already, make sure you do it. if she is the one to establish personal contact, and it is a punch in the shoulder or some other "friend" gesture, then chances are, you are doomed to be nothing more than a friend of hers. Don't be afraid to touch her, she won't run away crying if you do. (well, heh heh, if you are goosing her ass, or being a pervert, then yeah, she might.)and if you want to see her underwear crumpled up in a ball at the foot of your bed, then...talk to her, get to know her, listen to what she has to say, ask her questions, let her express herself, don't state unwanted opinions(unless she asks you for your opinion), MAKE SURE YOU LOVE HER(sex is the most special way for a man and woman to show their undying love for one another, it is not "getting laid," or "tapping another one."), look in her eyes(notice how beautiful they are?), do for her with tremendous love and care, be thoughtful, flowers never go out of style, DON'T randomly call her 20 times a day to see if she is still breathing or if she is with a male friend(huge turn-off), DO call her or leave her little notes at random for no particular reason- to remind her that you still adore her... I have lots more, I just wasn't sure if you wanted to see her underwear crumpled up at the foot of your bed, or if your goal was just to go out with her. Maybe after going out with her, you will decide she is the one whose underwear you'll want to sniff.

Very interesting advice.. thanks. feel free to still give advice

You know, even if a girl does the "punch in the arm" thing with a guy, it can still mean she likes him. Girls like that physical contact, even if it is just that, the punching thing. We like to touch. So however she touches you is a good thing.Something else, does she have alot of "guy friends" who are just friends. If not, then you know she is probably wanting to go further too. If she does, then I don't know what to tell you.

How many guys would be alot?

How many does she have?

Don't wait too long, bro. That's what I did, and my (supposed) friend snatched her up first, then decided to move, and take the relationship with him. Trust me on this one, you DO NOT want that to happen to you. I realise that the possibility of that same thing happening to you is astronomical, but oh well.Ask fast, and try your hardest not to studder, they may still get the girl in the movies, but high school isn't the movies.

5-10 maybe. I don't think I should ask her anymore.

F-F-F-F-F-F, why not?

I'm pretty sure its only going to be a friend thing.

That sucks, it's like waking up to someone pissing in yoru cheerios before breakfast. It just spoils the whole day. Well, don't let it get you down. You could always try Fruit-Loops or Capt'n Crunch. Then again, if you had your mind set on Cheerios, you could always get up extra early, and kick the shit out of them before they get anywhere near your Cheerios... I don't think agression is the answer to any problem, but man, violating breakfast cereals is a henious crime. Thank the Lord there are many many women in the world! It gives us a better shot at finding the perfect match, and if you miss out on one, there will always be more around the corner. Personally, I like Frosted Flakes, but then again, who doesn't enjoy those? Their Grrrrrreat!

Well you could drop little hints and see how she reacts to them. Like during a conversation, that is approprate, tell her she is pretty, or that she has a nice body, or you like her smile or her eyes. Little stuff. Test the waters. Then decide if you want to go for it.

How do you know its only gonna be a friend thing???

I found this out threw her friends that like me more then her.

It's hard to be friends when you're always wanting more. Don't try to fool yourself into thinking otherwise, it will just get you hurt.

"I found this out threw her friends that like me more then her."

Hold up. read that to yourself. Her friend likes you more than she does. SHE wants you. She doesn't want her friend to date you. Shes not going to be 100% honest. Don't trust anyone ive seen bestfriends backstab eachother to get the girl/guy. Go to the source.