i am not the person who usually uses this username im her friend and shes letting me share it. ookay well im 15. and last night my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time ever and i was a virgin but he was not. (we used protection.) he told me that i was the best girl he had ever slept with for it being my first time. and he asked what i did and i said nothing. but really well okay im not a sicko but i have watched porn before. well i just did what i have seeen them do. but today when i woke up it felt like i was hit by a car for like 2 hours then i was fine i mean im not perfect but im good now. is it wrong for me to have sex since im 15? i mean i have been with him for a while hes 17. and i agreeed to do it. i know i shouldn't care what other people think but i would like to knoww.. i mean am i a slutt, like why do i want to do it again like right now with himmm? ever since we stoppped i've wanted to get to it again...
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Omg. opinions please..
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Nothing wrong with being sexual active, as long as you know about protection, STDs/STIs, and the other responsibilities of sex, including the possiblility of pregnancy.However, if your boyfriend hits 18, no more sex due to law (although, someone could correct me if I'm wrong).
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sex with a minor isnt illegal unless she complains, or (if 15-17 with no job and being financially supported by parents) if her parents complain... it goes for guys and girls,thats the law, i had to look it up when i was with a 23 year old 2 years ago... but to the OP, your not a slut!!! lol... if ur a slut, then im an Uber slut, i lost my virginity when i was 7, started having sex very very frequently after 12, in my short 10 years of having sex, ive had 30 partners that i can remember... and i dont have aids, hiv, no kids running around... im clean...but i was always safe, and you should be too...i believe that the reason why u feel like you want it now is cause, you either are emotionally connected to him, or it was good, and your not used to the feeling of a cock inside of your pussy... but becareful, sex is like a drug, u can get addicted to it like i was... i went to SA meetings and everything (sexaholics anonymous) and have fun too ;-)
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Originally Posted By: GrownPastMyYearssex with a minor isnt illegal unless she complains, or (if 15-17 with no job and being financially supported by parents) if her parents complain... it goes for guys and girls,thats the law, i had to look it up when i was with a 23 year old 2 years ago... It's still statutory rape, no matter how much you sugar coat it. Feel free to prove me wrong though.
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well idk if its statutoury rape, i looked up laws of sex with minors, and thats what i learned...hmmm a way to prove u wroung... you over 18
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Statutory_rapeand! juss for u...http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_of_consentNow juss accept that your wroung...Edit: summary, its not rape unless she is under the AoC, AoC generally ranges from 16-18, but also from 12-21, so in other words...If she complains... and if she is under the AoC then if there parents complain...
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ahh, thank you all so muchh, and he just turned 17 yesterdayyy :]but thank you all you really helped mee. i thought this was not going to work but my friend was right this website is pretty cool =]
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Quote:Edit: summary, its not rape unless she is under the AoC, AoC generally ranges from 16-18, but also from 12-21, so in other words...You just proved yourself wrong. She said she was 15! The Age of Consent is most states is 16! what is statutory rape? Satutory Rape Laws by State (2003) ADDED: AOC by State Originally Posted By: GrownPastMyYearsthats the law, i had to look it up when i was with a 23 year old 2 years ago... Not only is that disgusting, it's very unlawful...PENAL CODE SECTION 261-269 261.5.(d) Any person over the age of 21 years who engages in an act ofunlawful sexual intercourse with a minor who is under 16 years of ageis guilty of either a misdemeanor or a felony, and shall be punishedby imprisonment in a county jail not exceeding one year, or byimprisonment in the state prison for two, three, or four years. AOC California
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Wanting sex again so soon after you lost your virginity isn't a bad thing at all. Really all things being told its fantastic. It means three things, you are relatively comfortable with yourself, and the situation, and more importantly he didn't fuck up your first time.Which is saying something since most men are idiots when it comes to a girl's first time. (I swore off virgins after botching it once)You're perfectly fine honey, get some.
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it also said in there that AoC can also be in some cases between 12 and 21... and if u want to go off of technicalities, u dont know if she might be an imancipated minor, in which case she would be considered an adult.either way, its w.e. not only are we taking up bandwidth but were arguing over something thats pointless and irrelevent, if ur 20 years old and fell in love with someone who's 40 but looks and acts 25 why does his age have to dictate anything, its how a person acts, and there charactor that should tell you whether or not u love them or want to fuck them, age aint nothin but a number...and as far as the 23 year old scenario, its far from disgusting, its my dick and ill stick it in WHOEVER i want, u dont here me telling u anything about who you let up into your pussy. she was 23 and i liked her, she acted like she was 16 looked 16 so why does her being on earth for 7 extra years really matter to me?now lets drop it... ill take initiative, i was wroung and you were right, please lets focus more on the topic at hands instead of going at each others throats...
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it also said in there that AoC can also be in some cases between 12 and 21...
But that's not U.S. law, that is assuming the OP is from the states.Quote:
age aint nothin but a number
Only if you're an adult with an adult. If you're a teen and an adult, that's a whole different ball game.Quote:
she was 23 and i liked her, she acted like she was 16 looked 16 so why does her being on earth for 7 extra years really matter to me?
It doesn't matter to you, but it matters to the police. Love doesn't make underage sex legal. That woman should've went to jail. -
and it also matters WHAT state she's in, so i would encourage the original poster to look up her state's AOC, although 15 is a bit young in my opinion...
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I think when he hits 18, she will still be 15. In some states (mine included) there is a 36 month clause, which allows for 36 months in separation of the ages. So, even at 18, it would all be well. Perhaps someone should look into that. And, when he turns 18, they will just have to wait a while until she is 16. Imagine how good it will be after a little wait :wink:
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The age is lower in the UK than it is in US. It's 16 here.Lets say a 16 year old is in an intimate with a relationship here in the UK with an 18 year old, and they go to the US on holiday.If they boink in US territory, is it legal? I would think so, considering they're not US citizens.
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The laws of the country you are in apply... not where you're from.
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Makes sense.
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The laws of the country you are in always apply; in some cases the laws of the country of your citizenship also apply, though they cannot be enforced until you return. If you go to a country with a lower age of consent than your own, depending on your own country's laws you may be liable for prosecution in your own country for sex that was legal in the country in which it took place.