you may be right. i dunno if she's worried bout gettin pregnant. i think so. possibly from me touchin myself to touchin her. i dunno. could u get pregnant that way? i just don't wanna hurt her. i'm a nice guy. i don't like hurtin people, let alone my own girlfriend
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Tight
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Wheres Alfred Kinsey when you need him... Please please please please do not have sex if you do not know how a girl can get pregnant. (public school systems do a shitty job explaining) Alright. A girl can ONLY get pregnant if semen enter her vagina, semen live for up to 3 days inside the vagina, so during that timeif they come into contact with an egg, One only one will fetalize it and there you go, she's pregnant. USE A CONDOM or have her get on some sort of pill/patch/shot/nuva ring. If you have any more questions please please please ask
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It's theoretically possible to get a woman pregnant from fingering her with hands still wet with semen. You should always wash and dry your hands if they may have got semen on them.
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thank you for clarifying. schools do suck. i wasn't utterly clear on that issue. but the problem is, is there a way to loosen her up or stop her from feelin pain (its not always there)? maybe a psychological problem
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Odds are, she's really really nervous. when women are nervous (for lack of better word) she will tighten up. Maybe her mind is telling her she's not ready, maybe she's afraid of what could happen (especially if she's unlear on ways to get pregnant), maybe she's afraid of someone finding out she's having sexual experiances (parents for example) There are a number of reasons. If you have any other questions let me know :wink: Im here to help.
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:smile: i do have 1 more question. whats the best way to help make her calm? i dunno what to say or do to calm her down. a problem is that often turns her off, which turns me off and we both get sorta annoyed or upset. if there's somethin to help, please tell me. thank you
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talk to her before, like the next time you see her ask her if she gets nervous and/or uncomfortable during sexual contact. try to relax her before hand, and while your having sexual contact try a lot of making out/breast stimulation (if she likes that) before to try to do anything like fingering or stuff like that, pay close attention to how she moves and acts you might be able to tell if she's nervous or not.
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thank you oh wise java addict i will try all you've said. lifesaver thanks
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Occaisonally i give good advice, I hope it all works out for ya
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asian girls are tighter generally - is she asian?