ok well im 14 and still a virgin though all my friends arnt and my bf that weve been dating for almost 2 years has asked me if i would like to have sex now...and i said yes....So hes planning this nice day on st.Patricks day and i dont know what to do...I dont want to disappoint him at all...={ Ok like after im in the bed then what?? And also hes not a virgin so that doesnt help at all..but i dont want to feel stupid and just be laying there having no idea what to expect or what should i do....I just dont want to be embaressed what do I do????!!!
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PLZ HELP ME! IDK WHAT TO DO AT ALL!
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You really don't need to be having sex at fourteen...i dont care how long you've been going out. anyways, my first time...when i was 19...i pretty muc just laid there. it was awkward, weird, and we broke up a month or two later (partially because of sex.)
USE PROTECTION!!!
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i agree with java
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why? why? why? why? why? why?
Does sex mean that little to people....I cannot devote anymore energy to this shit...Just think please and read posts, PM people older than you and see how they feel, do that before.
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okay take it from someone who lost their virginity at age 13, youre not ready. i dont care how long youve been dating, or how "ready" you think you are, youre not. maybe you are physically and mentally, but definitely not emotionally. most likely, if you have sex with your b/f things wont turn out the way you want them to. your b/f might not be a virgin, but i doubt if he really knows what hes doing unless hes way older than you. i suggest you wait til your older to lose your virginity because once youve done it, you cant take it back.
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exactly, wait till your older, tell him you're not ready yet.
After 2 years, I doubt he'll leave you because of that.
After 2 years, I'd hope he had somke feelings for you, and if he does, he'll understand.
If it's because the dating scene is getting boring, switch it up, go to different places, just hang out and have fun. -
If you feel awkward at all then you shouldn't go through with it. If you've been going out with him for 2 years then he should understand.
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I have to agree with everybody else. You are too youg to be having sex with all the commitment it implies and responsibility it brings. Tell your BF you are just not ready. If he doesn't understand or support you, you are better off no matter how much it seems otherwise. I have known too many pregnant girls who just did it to please their boyfriends.
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How old is he? If you've been dating for 2 years then he must be 16 (...), unless he had sex when you were dating?
And you're really not ready at 14. If he has feelings for you, he won't pressure you.