First Time Gone wrong?

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Well i'm 24 and never had sex before till recently (wow)However it was not something to be proud of coz maybe i might be having a problem hence would like you experts to enlighten me.Bascially me and my girl stripped, she started some foreplay on me which got me aroused right away, she capped me (condom) and we went for the missionary. She was quite tight i might say and i w/o realising it i came within like 5mins. Am i normal or did i do something wrong? what should i do in future to better prepare for this? I've heard alot of stories about people's first sexual encounter but mine seems to be a sad one. In addition pior that having sex i didnt masturabate for a good 1-2 weeks. Could that play a part too?thanks

no wonder, if u dint masterbate for that long ofcourse you're going to finish in 5 mins on your first time, if that happens next time, scream your girl name and say Omygod, youre so fucking sexy that i cant control myself (no doubt that was how u felt) my bf still finish in 5 mins even tho he has more practice than anyone else i kno, i think he's just plain lazy tho.

Umm you really should masturbate the night before or really early that day. Or just learn to control yourself.

well the 2 weeks without jerking compined with the experiance that it was the first time for you, is what cause it. You were excited that you were losing your virginity to someone you cared alot about. Masturbating, will help in the future, and even with a condom on, if it's that sensitive, try two condoms, bt make sure the bottom is non lubricated so the second doesn't just slide off.

thanks for the words.Maybe i should try more foreplay before getting it on so that i dont disappoint her.So masturbating often helps you last longer? i'm only 24 hence i dont think i want to try medication or something silly.

In reply to:try two condoms No, never use 2 condoms at once. The friction will most likely cause one of them, if not both, to break and then you'll be in some trouble.

Also many guys (myself included) find they last longer in girl-on-top positions.The first time is rarely good - you'll improve.

Well, your first time is what you make of it. You can either have fun and enjoy it for what it is, or hold really high expectations of the most wonderful act that you could ever do and be seriously dissapointed. Things may not go as smoothly or successfully as planned, but it can still be enjoyable.

Dude, you’re fine… Congrats on the first time….Every guy has had this happen to them. If they say it never happened to them they are lying. For me, Jacking off the night before doesn’t do anything for me... I’m usually rearing to go again the next day.… For me, personally, I usually stop the thrusting when I feel that awesome “I’m getting close” feeling. I usually pull out and kiss them for a few minutes to let the feeling subside and change positions. I have to agree that I usually have more control when the person is on top, as they are the one doing most of the work. But I enjoy other positions better like doggie style. I get off on the feeling of my balls slapping something…Good luck! You’ll find what works for you over time.

Most people are really quick the first time, or when they have been away from a real vagina for a while. Don't worry about it. Besides, who says it has to stop after your first ejaculation? You are still young enough to kiss her cuddler her (maybe finger and eat her) and then plunge in again