So theres this girl i secretly liked for over half a year now...We talkd in reality couple of times and she asked if i could sign her yearbook..and i finally got to know her through another girl i knew.I got her msn started talking once in a while just past 2 weeksI got her number through that friend i knew and i asked the girl i like if i could call her on MSN and the convo was like this..Me: mind if i call you sometime?Her: ummm...sureMe: its alright if u dont want me toHer: nah its okay ^^Im planning on calling her tommorow.. and asking her out in the next couple of weeks..What i wanna know is.. what should i talk about on the phone with her and how should i approach in asking her out later on. Thanks-Ken
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Phoning her.
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If you dont know what to talk to her about, maybe you should bother taking her out.a date is a chance to spend some time together, to talk, to be near each other, and have some fun.a phone conversation is nothing but talking.do you know if you have anythign in common as far as likes or hobbies or music ?if there is nothing to do or talk about together, your both better off with out each other.Think about it, are you wanting to get to know her and be with her ? or is she jsut cute and fuels your jack off dreams with her face and body?If you cant find a connection to her mentaly, thers no point in dating her unless its jsut about the pussy.Im all for dating a girl just to get the pussy, so long as she knows up front thats all its about.
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Im not exactly one for phone conversations, but i always seem to get stuck in ones that go on for hours and hours with my girlfriend. Now know the fact that she is a girl, When you call her up just be like whats up and hows it goin? If you know maybe somethings she has been up to lately like with school or friends or something ask her about that, how has track practice been goin or something like that. im sure she will start talking about that and you can listen to her and just try to pick up on other things to say. You said you have talked to her on msn a few times before, well just think like you would be typing on the computer and try and think of things to say. Once you get going you should be ok.
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Exactly. But dont down his hopes like that. You didnt answer his question. I beleive if you just keep talking about her she will swing your direction and be in favour of a yes to your question on a date
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You seem a little hesitant in the conversations. I think you should step up your game and give kind of straight forward answers. you:"I got your phone number, I might call you later"girl: "awesome, that'd be cool"If it turns into regular phone calls make sure to set up times that she calls you (or vice versa) that way you can avoid being a cuddle bitch and actually seem mysterious. Never say "oh you can call me anytime"
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UpdateI phoned her this afternoon while walking with my friend..just said hi and let her know it was me and asked what she was doing and wat im up to...later on my friends stole my phone in a joking way and called her and said all this stupid stuff...but one of my friends apologized after so everythings alright... and i talked to her on MSN tonight and asked how she was and talked about various things..Whats next? ><