Okay, I love my boyfriend to death. He's the one for me, but his friend is creeping me out. Once I got drunk and i wasn't feeling good, so I layed on the futon and my boyfriend came next to me and we fell asleep together. But I woke up and his friend was touching my boob. I slapped his hand and he went away. I didn't tell my boyfriend b/c I didn't want his friendship with him to brake up and his friend has a fiance and I didn't want that to end. Well nothing happened for a few months, but then his friend told my boyfriend that he had a sex dream about me. My boyfriend was the one who told me this, so I don't think he is upset at his friend, but I still find this creepy. How can I bring this up to my boyfriend and say that I am creeped out by his friend? Anybody else have this problem before?
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Boyfriend's friend
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this can be remedied easily enough- tell your boyfriend that this guy is making you uncomfortable. If your boyfriend is any kind of mature, level headed guy, he'll just have a talk with him, and that should be the end of it. Not to worry.
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Yeah, you're right. He'll understand and such. I just don't want that to ruin their friendship
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I say don't put yourself into a situation where you are alone with him. If he continues, tell your boyfriend he's hitting on you. Honesty always works best!
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Thanks for you help
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The guy that is creeping you out does not sound like a good friend nor does he sound like a good fiance to the girl he is with.In my opinion, if the friendship between your boyfriend and this guy is broken off, perhaps it won't be such a big loss. If his fiance broke it off, perhaps she is not missing out on a worthwhile relationship.By hiding secrets, it does not necessarily mean you are doing anyone a favor.
