I need help right now.

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So I have been with my girl friend for 10 months now and killing my brain to try to figured out what i should do for are 1 year? Like i dont what i should plan. If anyone has any ideas please let me know. Because I have very few ideas. All I could come on up with was a panick or dinner out at her fav place. But it seem like a lack of imagination on my part. But usually have to plan things she not giving me any clue which girls sometimes do.by the way were both 18 in Canada so in thoughts or feelings would be very good.Thank you

Do you live with your parents?

1 year! Thats a huuuge deal!Well i see that it falls in July.. just like me and my man! trust me I'm expecting a romantic one year whatever.. Ive been hinting at him to take me somewhere nice... like Niagara falls and stay in the nice Sheridan or Hilton.. whatever it is. Something romantic.. But my boyfriend isn't 18! so your situation is kinda different.What would be romantic is to take her somewhere nice, somewhere that you can dress up to, i think it would be cute to make her a mixed CD... and a little photoalbum of pictures of you two together! Cuttttttttttttttte!! Do you guys have Build a bear where you live? We have one here in the city.. those are super cute!

Ooh my man bought me a build-a-bear teddy for our last anniversary and I love him! I miss the time when it was called bear factory though...random I agree with you, the one year mark is a big occasion and generally whatever you do will be remembered forever

Just make sure you do something special or sweet. Personally I would love anything even if it was inexpensive etc, or just sentimental. My boyfriend did nothing for ours which was April 18th. I had planned on getting him something, but he told me he was going to be broke (like a month in advance - which I found to be odd), so I just bought him a card and wrote a four page letter explaining my feelings. He on the other hand did not buy a card or anything, and the one thing I did ask was that he write me something. He wrote me a note that was around 10-15 sentences long, only ten of them actually said anything decent. He also wouldn't sign the card, until I teased him and bugged him about it. He ended up signing the note the next day. So I guess I didn't feel real 'appreciated'. I know it meant a lot to him and I know he loves me etc. He definitely didn't feel the need to do anything for it though. I'm not sure whether I should be upset or not lol. I think he needs some training.

I don’t; get the big deal in the 1 year ..(how ever many years) anniversary crap. But I know women do. I bought my gf a nice horse shoe ring for ours…. I made her feel like a queen for her birthday and for Easter I hide jewelry (not expensive jewelry) in plastic eggs in her Easter basket. I wasn’t there to see her face when she found out wut was in the eggs but my ear rang for a while after she called that evening squealing.. omg ur so sweet!! Omg!! Thank …and bla bla bla… I knew she was going to like it. Her close friend Tara asked her to ask me to talk to her (Tara’s) boyfriend cuz, as Tara said it he isn’t romantic at all. But I’m not going to tell a guy how to treat his girlfriend. I just like making her/people happy.. No matter how I feel about it. The make a bear sounds like a good idea… I mean for a girl. Shannon would love that! But to me the bear is more of a valentine or birthday kinda gift. anniversary is more like jewelry.. dinner kinda thing. (but i dk about the bear.. i'm not a girl lol so i dk. maybe it is a anniversary kinda gift. i know it will show u pay attention to her and know wut she likes. like i know shannon would want a cat dresed in western cloths over a bear in a dress. it's embarrassing that i know this and am admitting it too )Like I said I don’t get all into the anniversary thing. I’d be happy with her just hanging out at the house (or a hotel like we did) and just hanging out.. But I know that’s not wut she wants.

Me and my ex never celebrated our anniversaries. I could care less about them to be honest.

yea i do live with my parents but there gone alot

Build a bear what is that never heard of it

I already bought her a neckles for 6 months and for x-mas the heart that goes with it

You pretty much customize a teddy bear.. or whatever animal u want I think

And put a heart in it. It's cute!

i didn't pay much attention to the store either (i alwasy thought it was a toy store lol) until Shannon drug me in there and we watched one of the workers do one. it was after thanksgiving so they were doing showings or something. i dk but IF u have a build a bear u could see if they have like a little purse thing and slip a ring down in it. if she wears rings...most the girls i know wear rings. maybe ring that goes with wut u had got her already. what kind of things does she like? besides jewelry....lol

You are so sweet and romantic....I wish you were my age. lol

homemade stuff is a score. it doesnt have to be a one hit knockout or even expensive. if you give her something like candy in a heart box, make a card, maybe a poem too (write it yourself for bonus points), and take her to dinner, or cook dinner and give her a cupcake with a big "1" candle... just use your imagination. if you have a small idea, do it! put a lot of small ideas together and suddenly its alot. she will appreciate it if you mean what you say/write.