I was 11 when I first J/OI did not understand sexual matters at that age.I was in the shower and for no reason I clamped both hands [straight & vertical] on both sides and started to roll both hands backwards and forwards like a rolling pin.I keep on doing this for a while.I guess I was just curious and playing around. Then after awhile I felt a slight burning sensation,and perplexed I stopped.But then I thought,"like all boys",what would happen if I continued lolSo I started again and the sensation got more intense.But this time there was some form of pleasure that I had never experienced before. woohoo! coolies* heh.....I stopped,and thought......what is this nice feeling "bizzo".I couldn't work it out.Why had no-one told me about this form of pleasure before!! .Anyway,I continued and this time the pleasure reached a big intensity...lasted about 10 sec's and then dissapeard slowley.WTF??..What the hell just happened?? lolFrom there on it was a proverbial J/O frenzy.But by this time..... I had learned how to J/O properly,cause I'd seen a guy at school make a wank gesture,and I put 2 and 2 together. Boys will be boys I felt I was in unknown territory cause I did not know what had happened and what all this was about.I felt kinda in the dark,and insecure about it all.My question is: Should parents breach the subject of masturbation to there sons around the age of puberty 10 -12 with proper literature in order to alleviate any fears when on the journey of self discovery.Cause I would have felt more in control of the situation,and obviously would have given Kudos points out..... within my own thoughts. btw: I was only given sex education at school when I was 12....ish.But, by that stage I had already been Jacking off..... like The Fast And The Furious for about 1 yr. Did you have a similar experience?.
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First Masturbation - Self Discovery
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Good question. I think the appropriate parent(meaning mother-daughter, and father-son) should talk about it when teh child is very young, under 10 years old. So then the kid knows something about it when he gets older.
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im not sure if parents should break the subject but the way i found out was by asking my dad what masturbation was and i didnt do it until a year after because i was scared. Maybe parents should just simply ask their child if they know what masturbation is.
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I discovered it myself, with no help at all from the internet (im so proud), around the time I got pubic hair I think.
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haha thats interesting, instead of me figuring this whole thing out, my cousin told me about it. He was like "hey Im going to tell you about this thing called masturbation. You take your hand and move it up and down on your penis." Then the next day he was like, "ok so whats masturbations." and I moved my hand up and down in the air. He was like "yup you learned." and then I tried it while I was taking a bath lol
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i honestly don't believe my mom knows i masturbate (i'm 18, first time was when i was 12, haven't gone longer than a 2 weeks period without).
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In reply to:Good question. I think the appropriate parent(meaning mother-daughter, and father-son) should talk about it when teh child is very young, under 10 years old. So then the kid knows something about it when he gets older. Thanks devilman.I received a similar response in another forum.I think that being able to make an informed deceision about your body is your right.And thus,your parents should at least try to acknowledge that right buy way of info and communication at say 9yrs old.Like you say,perhaps well before puberty.And if there old enuff to swear at there mum and call her a bitch.Then they can bloody well be informed!. lol!
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I was 14 and i figured it out on my own. No internet no friends, justme and my curiosity
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you sure. I was 10. I was in the show.
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my first time was also in the shower when it happend it kinda hurt and it made me have a flu feeling that was over quickly but i didnt do it again for a week because i was freaked out now im better hehehe
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i was 12 takin a crap and i just discovered it. i thought it was bad so i felt scared and then i figured out what it. was.
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i am 14 now and i figured it out 3 months ago on my own no help
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oh god...I cant even imagine how balistic my parents would get if I mentioned I masturbated.. "OH GOD, SARAH! GET THE PRIEST! JOHNY IS TOUCHING HIS SATAN STICK!" >.>
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the first time i actually touched myself was when i was 8 years old. i just sorta discovered it on my own