im 17 years old...my girlfriend is 99% sure she is pregnant with my baby...she has all the simptoms...i love her and she loves me...were gonna test on sunday...but im fucking scared!HELP ME!
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Omg im gonna be a friggan father!
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Try to be calm, MK07. Until the test you won't really know. If the test comes out positive then it's time for making plans.If it's positive it's going to be tough, but as Helms said, other people have managed, and manged well.
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May I wish you good luck on the subject. Don't worry; it's not like you'll die if it tests positive! I know that people can make the best of it, and assuming all the conditions are consistent, you can too.
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Well you dont know for sure that you are going to be a father, and you wont know til sunday. My advice is if she is NOT pregnant than maybe you guys should stop having sex. Yes it sucks, but in the long run you will be very happy. You dont want to be a 17 year old father that could upset your life drastically. With that said i wish you and your girlfriend the best of luck, keep us updated.
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Being a father takes a shit load of work and your life will change 10 fold forever. at 17yrs you are still trying to figure out who and what you are. It will make fatherhood difficult. these decisions ahead of you are going to be the toughest you have ever made. Think about their outcome and make wise choices for they could or will change your life forever.
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Lol... I can't help but, remark on the "at 17".
Its kinda funny because a while back I was talkin with a lady who said "the biggest problem with school these days are they try to make you decide what to do with the rest of your life way to early on.. most people don't figure that out till past 25"
I'm not going to tell you how to run your life. However, child or not I highly recommend furthering your education and not just a little bit. I recommend whatever you choice for furthering education is you take it as far as it will go.
I have herd of more then one couple at my school bouncing a child back and forth between classes.
However, there are many choices, abortion, adoption, keeping it.
The government will probably also be willing to help you further your education if you have a kid... there are alot of options. First find out something for sure.. then consider the otpions.She may have the "symptoms" however, paranoia may be producing them.
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"...however, paranoia may be producing them."
True. Mentality plays a role in everything.
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umm... I wouldn't necessarily promote abortion. personally from myself. simply for the fact that you said "father" so it gives me the impression of child. and it just doesn't go right for me. If she wants an abortion and you do too then... But if she wants one and you don't then make sure she gets that across. Or if you think she should have an abortion and she doesn't want one make sure she understands that too but be open to her decision. Being a father is hard work obviously. I make it tough for my father, so he says. I would suggest the best option to be giving him/her up for adoption but it's all up to you two. Don't panic too much, just relax and leave room for sensibility and sincerity.
