ok im 13 and i really want to atleast feel like i have had sex or like find something close to feeling like sex... i have masterbated before but like it is boring... how can i make it seem like im having sex i m 13 remember i cant go out and buy sex toys i have also watched porn and it makes me wet. please help mee...
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I really want to experience sex
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Go get a bf and have sex
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lol im 13 i cant have sex yet and i go to a CATHOLIC SCHOOL the kids there are no fun
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yes i know i said i cant have sex lol but like what can i do to make it a near close like feeling?
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You can use things from around the house to masterbate with. Like veggies...
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how can i use veggies?
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I think what pepsi means is the use of WASHED carrots, cucumbers etc, in the same way you would use dildos or vibrators.
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i have never used a dildo or vibrator i m 13 i cant get them unless you know some where i can get them at my age
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Thats what we are saying, instead of getting a vibrator, use the veggies, as in insert them and play as you would with a dildo/vibrator, you don't need a proper one, home made ones can be just as much fun .
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lol i dont know how you play with a dildo or vibrater omg im so embarressed see b4 i was just humping stuffed animals and it feeels great but im getting bored of it and like would the carrot get stuck could it break off? i dont even know how to insert a tmapon into myself so how m i gonna get a carrot there
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My bad, from your other posts i assumed you knew more than you did.In the case of tampons the information sheet you are given with them is pretty helpful in explaining the where, and hows........my advice if you have to do other stuff would be to sit in front of a mirror so you can see what you are doing, and explore yourself down there, and gently use your fingers etc before anything else........
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yeh i know there are sheets but like i know how to get it up there but like idk it just wont go up thanks so much for helping me
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As i said i would do the mirror thing, and using your finger, preferrably when you are wet or with a lubricated finger, saliva will do, slowly ease it into yourself, be gentle, eventually you will loosen up, and you will feel more comfortable about tampons and everything else........being nervous about inserting tampons etc can cause the vaginal muscles to tighten, whether you think they are doing it or not! Spend some time with yourself, relaxed and not rushed and things should work out.
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ok thanks very much
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definitly wait on the sex thing. it would probly hurt if tried it out now. but like yea go ahead and masturbate like it probly is best to start with your fingers or you could start with like running watter like in the shower. when your ready a hair brush can be good, just make sure you use the handle end not the pointy end lol
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Thanks Angel for picking up where I left off!! And yeah beachbummie, you should use your fingers first, and then maybe something else later.
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I thought it was legal to buy under the age of 18?
May not, if you have an older sister or friend maybe she can get one for you.
Other then that theres things you can use at home.
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Start with small stuff first =).
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Don't use organic stuff like... produce down there. In general its a bad idea as a piece could like you said, break off and other things might mess with your ph/chemistry down there.
I consider myself pretty liberal but if you really are 13, I recommend you keep the sex play pretty light. Explore things for yourself and see what feels good for you. I'd avoid porn as I personally don't think the normal port is good for a 13 yo. If you absolutely must look at some pictures, I'd recommend artistic nudes.\* Be careful with what you "play with". Do not insert anything dangerous: sharp, organic, chemical, or too large/long. Try some neutral oils to massage yourself with (baby oil, mineral oil), shower, etc. I would advise AGAINST looking for a way to get a dildo or something similar and DEFINITELY avoid having real sex or sex type play with someone else. I know I'll sound like a parent... but Please for the love of god wait some years. You have so much time ahead of you to explore that route.
\*I know it may sound prudish but I think typical pornography is totally inappropriate for someone so young. The adult themes of not just sex and sexuality, but moreso the exploitation and lack of responsibility are very negative. If the OP was older I might not say the same things but at that age, I just don't think it's at all healthy.