I have been reading other posts about but not helped so Here I go over the last 2 months I have become very good friends with this girl in my one of my classess and I have deep feelings for her I might even LOVE her. WE do lots of stuff together we hug and walk to class holding hands sometimes and sometimes she saids stuff like I cant with out you and I love u and stuff like that. But I confused cause I read a noye somebody wrote her and she said she just wanted to be friends with me but I dont know and I scared to ask ask her if she likes me because it might ruin are friendship and it will be awkard. The note she could have said that because one of my friends wrote it.Thank u to all
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Judging from what you said, I think she definately likes you and you should ask her out.
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I'm a bit confused - what exactly did the note say?If this is the girl who gave you a bj, that sounds like more than just friends to me. And what she says that she can't [live?] without you sounds like more than just friends.Perhaps you should ask her out on a proper date.
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I'm not sure most 14 years olds would be in a position to do that, Helms.
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You gotta be strait with her, if you like her, you get on well togeather and shes single, why not give it a go?If ur 14 prehaps Helms strategy isnt the best, when you get to adulthood you could buy her a few drinks, take her home, have ur way with her before she passes out, but in your case i would sudgest you get her alone, forget about the drink, go to the movies with her, just the two of you.See how it goes, how is she reacting to you, remember things go 2 ways and if shes showing positive signs (ull know if u care to look for them), then pluck up the courage to prehaps ask her out.Y'know there is no right or wrong way to do this stuff, its what feels natural at the time