... am i messed up?recently.. and i mean very recently.. ive started to masturbate thinking about my cousin..... it really gets me off thinking about how wrong it is... i wont go into detail about what my fantasy is actually about because... well.. i think its weird enough already.. but i just wanna know.. am i messed up.. its not like i would do anything with him in real life because omg i sooo wouldnt... its not like that..... i just find myself really getting off to thoughts about him... am i wrong?
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Am i messed up? this might sound weird...
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Well... I guess it is wrong, if you were to tell everyone you know... trust me your not the first person who wrote anything like this. All I can say from my point is to obviously not do anything with him and just hope that this is just a stage in your life. So just ignore it. In time those thoughts may go away.
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Its not wrong... if anything, I'm very wrong. I find masturbation to be one of the few times where my mind goes wild. I start thinking about what I'm doing tomorrow, and inevitably I think of the people, which makes me feel weird. But, whenever I think of someone while masturbating, for some reason, I think of them knowing about me thinking about them whilst masturbating when they go to heaven... I know that sounds awkward... As long as you don't act on them, you're good. ><
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Many people have strange fantasies that they'd never act out in real life. So long as they stay as only fantasies I don't think there's a serious problem. Some people think that masturbating to such fantasies encourages them and you would be more likely to act them out, while other people think it can act as a safety valve and keep things under control. I don't think anyone really knows.
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I used to think of my sister when I was younger,(I was 13-14 she was in here mid late 20's) but thats before I understood the meaning of incest.
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No, it's not wrong to 'get off,' so to speak, on the idea of things that are considered wrong. I'm in a crappy ass relationship right now, and all I can think of is having sex with one of my best female friends, strictly because it's considered morally unjust.Then again, I've always had a HUGE problem with authority, so that might make a difference...
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20% of the world is married to their cousins. In western society cousin relationships are frowned upon. But thats not the same in other parts of the world. Intimate relationship with cousins is very different than incest as far as genetics is concerned.Either way you shouldn't feel guilty.
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I don't think it's wrong. It's very commonplace to have curiosity about such things, and not only that, but in the heightened stages of arousal the mind tends to wander. Don't judge yourself, it's just a natural feeling that just about everyone gets at least once in their life.
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It isn't Genetically "OK" unless it's a 2nd cousin or further. 1st cousins are still too close.
