Just about 5 or 6 months ago ive had dreams that i would give a guy a bj, but it only happens once in a while. Its very weird because i never dreamed about a girl like this. I guess i might be bi-curious because just about 2 months ago i quit watching gay porn because i was afraid it might make me gay or something. I have actually given a friend a bj once and i received one but it was only for fun, i like girls and ive had a few gfs and i dont like guys. What do you think?
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Im straight but i keep having weird dreams
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im thinking maybe i have these dreams because i havent done something like that with a girl in real life?
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Did you like it when you gave/recieved head from a guy?You may be bi... If you like gay porn, you like gay porn. It can't turn you gay, either you like it or not. You were already like this before you starting watching it, right. You can still like girls, even more than you like guys, it is how it is. You could just be bi. Doesn't mean you have to announce it to everyone and let everyone know if you don't want to.I am a girl, I have sexual dreams about girls alot compared to sexual dreams with guys which I don't dream about alot.
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Watching gay porn doesn't make you gay. What makes you gay is if you long for a relationship with another man (or woman depending).Many guys experiment when they are going through puberty in their early teens. It's ok. If you want to follow those urges it's ok. Be the person you want to be.Dreams are harmless. Dreaming is when the mind runs free. Things could happen in your dreams that you would never think of doing, so don't let it affect your daily life.
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Sometimes we have dreams of what we fear. You are afraid you might be gay, so you have a dream in which you are.
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Your obviously not homosexual but its quite possible that you are bisexual, if you enjoy men physically and you like receiving/giving a BJ. Theres nothing wrong with this.
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I think you hit the nail on the head there...the dream BJ isn't so much a conscious desire to have sex with a male; rather it is your subconscious desire for sex. Your mind is using the only memory/experience you have thus far.
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ok dude...im like the same as you. minus the dreams, everything u said is somethin i do. and i dont think...in any way...that we r gay. WE R STRAIGHT...just curious or adventurous i guess.
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Welcome to A2A, Tanis!
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Dunno how old this post is XD >.<Eh. I think everyone has a certain amount of "curiosity" built right into em.It doesn't mean it will happen. It doesn't mean your gay. It just means your curious and the dream is scratchign that itch so to speak.
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It's perfectly OK, man. Don't sweat it. The same happens to me sometimes. Don't worry about labels, gay, bi, straight. Before the 20th century, such labels didn't exist. Sure, guys have been into guys since anciant times, eg. ancient Greece, but it was actually a part of being a normal sexual human being. Your subconscious mind is just exploring the possibilities, nothing weird or strange. I am sure most people have dreams of a sexual nature with members of the same sex, but people are just so scared of the labels and stigmas associated with them that they don't want to admit that kind of thing. Stay cool about it. If you don't want to tell others, you don't have to.
