Recently I've noticed that my girlfriend is telling all these wat seem to be insignificant lies, for example a couple of weeks ago she went out with her friends, she was telling me how shit it was and how she didnt drink anything. Also that night she had been invited to a party in london, which she then told me she didnt go to and just went out locally. I then see on her myspace one of her friends sayin how drunk she was nd then my gf comments back sayin how she saw her mate with some boy who is in the group of friends who was at that party. So she lied about getting drunk and also seems to of lied about where she went out to? Also there are lots of other little lies she tells me which i can clearly tell arent true but there seems to be no reason for it. Its really bugging me and i dont know why she keeps doing it. should i just confront her?
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Small lies
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Personally, I think that she tells these lies because she wants to keep you happy and maybe, she might think you'll disapprove of her going out with her friends and getting wasted.If I were you, I'd confront her and tell her you have 100% trust in her, that's if you do and that she doesn't need to lie about her whereabouts.
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Originally Posted By: BigEvilNerdPersonally, I think that she tells these lies because she wants to keep you happy and maybe, she might think you'll disapprove of her going out with her friends and getting wasted.If I were you, I'd confront her and tell her you have 100% trust in her, that's if you do and that she doesn't need to lie about her whereabouts. I agree to be honest although i wouldnt confront her directly (not initially at least) but just tell her you trust her and that she shouldnt feel like she has to lie to you.