hey. first to let you know. no im not a ass posting this to get off on it. so heres my question, i am a virgin and hate it. i am rlly perverted, but cant find anyone at school the same way. i go to a very populated highschool and am very well known through my grade. allota people know im a freak but cant find anyone sexually like me. what do i do? how would i go about finding that right girl? is there something we say to get that kind of girl or what? what should i change or do? anything will help me at this point i am getting really pissed.
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Myspace? To ask someone what you want to know are very personal questions. Maybe you should get to know someone a bit first. It's a hard thing to figure out, you never know what people are like when the curtains close. Aren't most kids in high school horny and peverted?
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Originally Posted By: PS4L
so heres my question, i am a virgin and hate it.
And why is that? Being a teenage virgin is no big deal. Call me ignorant but I don't understand why young teens are in such a rush to lose their virginity. Sex is really overrated. It's not like how movies, television, or even the stories you hear from people make it seem. It's only perfect when you are with the right one.Originally Posted By: PS4L
i am rlly perverted, but cant find anyone at school the same way. i go to a very populated highschool and am very well known through my grade. allota people know im a freak but cant find anyone sexually like me.
Maybe that's the reason you won't find anyone else. If girls know that you are "perverted" then that is the reason why they are staying away from you. Of course, that is what I think. I know when I was a teenager, I hated guys who had nothing but sex sex sex on their minds. It's really a turn off.Teenagers, guys and girls, have nothing but hormones running through their veins. But if they have a good head on their shoulders, then I doubt they will be open about sexuality like you are. Girls are generally shy when it comes to private matters like that.
Originally Posted By: PS4L
what do i do? how would i go about finding that right girl?
Easy, find a girl with a good personality. Ask her out and see where it goes from there. Seriously, why don't you just date someone, see what kind of person they are and get to know them. Then maybe someday you'll make love, and not just have sex. Don't look for a girl just for sex. You'll probably end up being slapped or something. -
Im not 100% sure what you mean by perverted to be honest :PIf you mean it in that you have unusual sexual preferances, kinda the darker side of sex then its something most people would move to in their desire for the ultimate sexual experiance. High schoolers are generally rather inexperianced and would want to master the basics before moving to 'advanced' stuff.
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dude i think u got me. i would do it all man u just dont know. like ANYTHING with a girl i would do. call me gay or watever. dildo i would totaly do it man. if i could just find a loyal freaky girl i would be happy rest of my life.
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i guess we kinda look at it diffrent. ive been slapped alot lol. im pretty much know as the future pornstar in my school. i like being known like that. i mean all highschool guys think about sex but i know for a fact im the freakiest one in my school.
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But is that something you truly want to be proud of? Trust me honey, there's a lot more out there outside high school life than just sex. When you graduate and get older, you'll see what I mean. Besides, I doubt anyone will be impressed if you had sex in high school.You'll find someone someday who will click with you on a sexual level, but maybe not just now.